We understand your urgency and desire to seek God's intervention in your marriage. It's beautiful to see you turning to the Lord in prayer, as He encourages us to ask, seek, and knock (Matthew 7:7-8, WEB). Remember, it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God, for there is no other name under heaven given among men whereby we must be saved (Acts 4:10-12).
Firstly, let's pray for your husband and your marriage.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this beloved sister and her husband. Lord, we ask that You bless the prayers she has written in the card for her husband. May these words touch his heart deeply, softening it, and drawing him closer to her and to You. We pray that Your Spirit moves in his heart, renewing his love and commitment to his wife, as You have called husbands to love their wives just as Christ also loved the church (Ephesians 5:25, WEB). We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.
While it's important to pray for your husband's heart to be touched, it's also crucial to live out a life of love and respect towards him, as God commands wives to respect their husbands (Ephesians 5:33, WEB). This doesn't mean enabling or accepting sinful behavior, but rather, showing him the love and respect that God intended within the bounds of marriage.
Moreover, it's essential to seek God for personal growth and sanctification. As you desire a deeper connection with your husband, also seek a deeper relationship with the Lord. Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you (James 4:8, WEB).
Lastly, we gently remind you that while God can work through our prayers to change hearts, it's crucial to allow God to work in His timing and in His way. He is faithful, and He hears your prayers. Trust in Him, for He is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20, WEB).
Keep praying, keep believing, and keep living out a life of love and obedience to God. May the Lord bless your marriage and draw both of you closer to Him.