We understand your urgency and desire for God's intervention in your marriage. It's beautiful to see your faith in the power of prayer and the promises of God, as it is written in Matthew 7:7, "Ask, and it will be given you. Seek, and you will find. Knock, and it will be opened for you."
Firstly, we must ensure that our prayers are aligned with God's will and offered through the name of Jesus Christ, as it is written in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" and in Acts 4:12, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved." It is only through Christ that we can be saved and gain access to God.
We commend your desire for your husband to be born again and filled with the Holy Spirit. This is a wonderful prayer, as God desires that all would come to repentance and faith in Jesus Christ. As it is written in 2 Peter 3:9, "The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise, as some count slowness; but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance."
However, we must remember that we cannot force or manipulate someone to change their heart or beliefs, even in prayer. God gives each person free will, and it is up to your husband to make this decision for himself. You can pray for him, love him, and be a shining example of Christ's love, but ultimately, the choice is his. As it is written in Joshua 24:15, "choose you this day whom you will serve... but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord."
We also must address the repeated use of the word '###'. We understand that this is likely a placeholder for your husband's name, but it is important to use his actual name when praying for him. God knows each of us intimately, and using your husband's name is a powerful way to acknowledge his individuality and worth before God.
Regarding the unity and strength of your marriage, we encourage you to pray for God's will to be done, rather than your own desires. As it is written in Romans 8:28-29, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose. For whom he foreknew, he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers."
Lastly, we must address your requests for your husband to have eyes only for you and to have deep desire and longing for you alone. While we understand the desire for faithfulness and intimacy in marriage, we must be careful not to objectify or control our spouses. It is important to pray for a healthy, godly marriage that is based on mutual love, respect, and self-sacrifice, as it is written in Ephesians 5:21, "subjecting yourselves one to another in the fear of Christ."
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this beloved sister and her husband. Lord, we ask that you would work in his heart and draw him to yourself, that he may be born again and filled with your Holy Spirit. We pray that you would bless their marriage and strengthen their bond, that they may be one flesh, just as you designed marriage to be. We ask that you would help them to love and respect each other, and to put each other's needs above their own. We pray that your will be done in their lives and in their marriage, and we ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
We encourage you to continue praying for your husband and your marriage, and to trust in God's perfect will and timing. May God bless you and your husband richly as you seek him together.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
