We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting you and your husband up in prayer during this painful and urgent time. Infidelity is a grievous sin that breaks the covenant of marriage, which God designed to be a lifelong union between one man and one woman. The pain you are experiencing is deep, but we serve a God who is mighty to heal, restore, and redeem even the most broken situations. Let us first address the spiritual battle at hand, for this is not merely a struggle against flesh and blood but against the powers of darkness that seek to destroy marriages.
The Bible is clear about the sanctity of marriage and the call to faithfulness. In Hebrews 13:4, we read, *"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."* Adultery is a sin against God and against the marriage covenant, and it must be repented of wholeheartedly. Your husband must turn away from this sin completely, seeking God’s forgiveness and yours, and commit to walking in purity and faithfulness. There can be no compromise with sin, and no room for this other person in his life—spiritually, emotionally, or physically.
We also recognize the authority we have in Christ to stand against the enemy’s schemes. Ephesians 6:12 reminds us, *"For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."* We must bind the spirit of adultery, lust, and deception in the name of Jesus and command every ungodly soul tie between your husband and this other person to be broken permanently. However, while we pray for the removal of this sinful relationship, we must also emphasize that true change comes through repentance, not just declarations. Your husband must choose to turn away from this sin and surrender his heart fully to the Lord.
We also notice that your prayer is filled with decrees, which can be powerful when aligned with God’s will, but we must remember that our authority in prayer comes through the name of Jesus Christ alone. It is only by His name that we can approach the throne of God and see victory. Philippians 2:9-11 declares, *"Therefore God also highly exalted him, and gave to him the name which is above every name; that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of those in heaven, those on earth, and those under the earth, and that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father."* Our prayers must always be rooted in submission to God’s will and in the authority of Jesus’ name, not in our own desires or demands.
Now, let us pray together for your marriage, for your husband’s repentance, and for God’s healing and restoration to flow into every broken area.
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**Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this sister and her marriage to You. Lord, You hate divorce, and You are a God who heals, restores, and redeems. We ask that You intervene powerfully in this situation and bring an end to the sinful relationship that has come between this husband and wife. Father, we bind the spirit of adultery, lust, and deception in the name of Jesus. We command every ungodly soul tie between our brother and this other person to be severed permanently by the blood of Jesus. Let every plan of the enemy to destroy this marriage be exposed, thwarted, and rendered powerless.
Lord, we pray for our brother’s heart to be convicted by Your Holy Spirit. Bring him to true repentance, Father—let him see the gravity of his sin against You and against his wife. Soften his heart, Lord, and draw him back to You and to the covenant he made before You. Let him turn away from this sin completely, deleting every trace of this ungodly relationship from his life—his phone, his social media, his thoughts, and his heart. May he seek forgiveness from You and from his wife with a broken and contrite spirit.
Father, we also lift up our sister, who is hurting deeply. Comfort her, Lord, and surround her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Heal her broken heart and restore her trust in You. Give her wisdom, strength, and discernment as she navigates this trial. Let her not be overcome by bitterness or anger but fill her with Your love and grace.
We declare that this marriage is covered by the blood of Jesus. We speak restoration, reconciliation, and renewal over this union. Let this husband’s eyes and heart turn fully back to his wife, cherishing her, honoring her, and loving her as Christ loves the church. May he see her as Your precious gift to him and commit to building a marriage that glorifies You.
Lord, we ask that You would rebuild what has been broken. Restore the trust, the intimacy, and the love that has been damaged. Let this marriage be a testimony of Your redeeming power and grace. We pray for a spirit of forgiveness to flow between them, but we also pray for godly boundaries and wisdom to guide their steps forward.
Finally, Father, we ask that You would expose any areas in both of their lives that have opened the door to the enemy. Bring conviction where there is sin, healing where there is brokenness, and unity where there is division. Let them both draw closer to You individually so that they may be drawn closer to one another in a way that honors You.
We thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your faithfulness and Your power to bring beauty from ashes. May Your will be done in this marriage, and may Your name be glorified. In the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
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We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord’s face through this trial. Stay rooted in His Word, and surround yourself with godly counsel and support. If your husband is unwilling to repent, you must seek the Lord’s wisdom on how to proceed, remembering that God calls us to forgive but does not require us to endure ongoing unrepentant sin. Matthew 18:15-17 provides guidance on addressing sin within the body of Christ, and you may need to involve your pastor or trusted spiritual leaders if your husband remains hardened.
We also urge you to examine your own heart and surrender any pain, anger, or bitterness to the Lord. Forgiveness is a process, but it is essential for your own healing. Colossians 3:13 says, *"bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."* Trust that God sees your pain and will bring justice and restoration in His perfect timing.
Lastly, we want to remind you that your worth and identity are found in Christ alone. You are deeply loved by the Father, and He has a plan for your life, regardless of the outcome of this situation. Cling to Him, and let Him be your strength and refuge. Psalm 34:18 assures us, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* He is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
