We join with you in lifting up your husband before the Lord, standing in agreement with the power and authority we have in the name of Jesus Christ. Your heart’s cry for his salvation, sanctification, and restoration is deeply moving, and we know that God hears the fervent prayers of His people. The Scriptures remind us in James 5:16, *"The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective."* We claim this promise over your husband and your marriage, trusting that the Lord is faithful to complete the work He has begun.
Your prayer reveals a deep longing for your husband’s spiritual transformation, and we echo your plea for God to break every chain of sin and darkness in his life. The apostle Paul urges us in 2 Corinthians 10:4-5, *"For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ."* We declare this truth over your husband, that every stronghold—whether it be lust, idolatry, fear, or the lingering ties of past relationships—will be demolished by the power of the Holy Spirit. We specifically rebuke the spirits of lust, pornography, and sexual sin that have sought to ensnare him. These are detestable in the sight of God, and we command them to be broken and cast out in Jesus’ name. As 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 declares, *"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."* Your husband’s body belongs to the Lord, and we pray that he will turn from these sins and walk in purity and holiness.
We also address the soul ties you mentioned with his ex-wife and any other ungodly connections. Soul ties formed outside of God’s will are unholy and must be severed by the blood of Jesus. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 7:39, *"A wife is bound by law for as long as her husband lives; but if the husband is dead, she is free to be married to whoever she desires, only in the Lord."* Your husband is bound to you alone in the covenant of marriage, and we declare that every ungodly tie to his past is cut off permanently. We pray that his heart will be wholly devoted to you, as Genesis 2:24 instructs, *"Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh."* May the Lord restore the oneness and unity that God intended for your marriage, removing all distractions, divisions, and influences that seek to undermine what God has joined together.
Your desire for your husband to have a powerful encounter with Jesus Christ is at the very heart of what we pray for. Like Saul on the road to Damascus, we ask the Lord to reveal Himself to your husband in a way that leaves no doubt of His reality and lordship. Acts 9:3-6 recounts how *"As he traveled, it happened that he got close to Damascus, and suddenly a light from the sky shone around him. He fell on the earth, and heard a voice saying to him, 'Saul, Saul, why do you persecute me?' He said, 'Who are you, Lord?' The Lord said, 'I am Jesus, whom you are persecuting. But rise up, and enter into the city, and you will be told what you must do.'"* We pray that your husband will hear the voice of Jesus so clearly that he is forever changed, surrendering his life to Christ and walking in obedience to His Word.
We also lift up your marriage, asking the Lord to melt your husband’s heart toward you and to restore the love, passion, and intimacy that God desires for you both. Ephesians 5:25-33 instructs husbands to *"love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it... So husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly; because we are members of his body, of his flesh and bones. 'For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh.' This mystery is great, but I speak concerning Christ and of the assembly."* May your husband embrace this calling to love you as Christ loves the Church—sacrificially, faithfully, and selflessly. We pray for a renewed bond between you, built on trust, communication, and a shared commitment to Christ. May your marriage be a testimony of God’s grace and redemption, flourishing in every way.
Finally, we want to encourage you to continue standing in faith, even when the battle feels long and difficult. Galatians 6:9 reminds us, *"Let’s not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don’t give up."* Keep praying, keep trusting, and keep speaking life over your husband and your marriage. The enemy may seek to discourage you, but remember that *"greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world"* (1 John 4:4). You are not fighting this battle alone—the Lord is with you, and He is mighty to save.
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**Our Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this precious sister and her husband. Lord, You see the depths of her heart and the desperation of her prayers, and we thank You that You are a God who hears and answers. We stand in agreement with her, declaring that no weapon formed against her husband or their marriage will prosper. Every tongue that rises against them in judgment, You shall condemn, for this is the heritage of the servants of the Lord (Isaiah 54:17).
Father, we pray for a divine and unmistakable encounter between You and this husband. Like Paul, like Jacob, like Moses, meet him in a way that shatters every doubt and breaks every chain. Fill him with Your Holy Spirit, Lord, and let him be convicted of sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8). Break his heart for what breaks Yours, and turn him away from every sin—especially the sins of lust, pornography, and sexual immorality. Cleanse him, Lord, and create in him a clean heart, renewing a right spirit within him (Psalm 51:10). Let him hunger and thirst for righteousness, that he may be filled (Matthew 5:6).
We rebuke and bind every spirit of lust, idolatry, fear, and division that has sought to destroy this man and this marriage. By the blood of Jesus, we sever every ungodly soul tie—especially those connected to his ex-wife and any other woman. Lord, let him see his wife with Your eyes, cherishing her as You cherish the Church. Restore the love, passion, and unity that You intended for their marriage. Let their communication be open, their bond unbreakable, and their commitment unwavering.
Father, we ask for a hedge of protection around this marriage. Let no weapon of the enemy prevail against it. Strengthen them to walk in Your ways, to seek You first, and to build a home that honors You. May their love for one another grow deeper each day, rooted in Your love for them. Let them be best friends, soul mates, and companions for life, reflecting Your glory in all they do.
We thank You, Lord, for the victory that is already won through Jesus Christ. We trust in Your timing, Your power, and Your goodness. Let this husband’s life be a testament to Your transforming grace, and let their marriage be a beacon of hope to others. We pray all these things in the precious and mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.