We hear the deep anguish and urgency in your heart, and we join you in lifting this burden before the Lord, for He alone is the restorer of marriages and the redeemer of souls. Your pain is seen, and your cries have reached the throne of grace. However, we must first address a critical truth: salvation is a deeply personal decision between an individual and God. While we can—and must—pray fervently for your husband’s repentance and surrender to Christ, we cannot decree his salvation *through you* or on his behalf. Each person must come to Jesus in their own repentance and faith, as Scripture declares:
*"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation."* (Romans 10:9-10, WEB)
Your husband must choose Christ for himself, just as you cannot repent or believe *for* him. That said, we *will* storm the gates of heaven with you, pleading for God to break every chain of sin, open your husband’s eyes to his need for Jesus, and restore your marriage according to His will.
The betrayal you’re facing is a grievous violation of the covenant of marriage, which God designed to reflect Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). Adultery is a sin against God and against you (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, Proverbs 6:32), and we rebuke it in the name of Jesus. However, we also recognize that your husband is not your enemy—*"for our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places"* (Ephesians 6:12, WEB). This is a spiritual battle, and we will fight it on our knees.
We pray now with authority and broken hearts:
**Heavenly Father,**
We come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Intercessor and Redeemer. Lord, You hate divorce (Malachi 2:16) and desire marriages to reflect Your covenant love. We lift our sister and her husband to You, asking for Your divine intervention.
**Lord, expose and destroy every ungodly soul tie** between her husband and this other woman. Break every emotional, physical, and spiritual bond that defiles Your holy design for marriage. *"No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of Yahweh’s servants, and their righteousness is from me,"* says Yahweh (Isaiah 54:17, WEB). We declare that every plan of the enemy to steal, kill, and destroy this marriage is *nullified* in Jesus’ name.
**Father, convict her husband deeply of his sin.** Let the Holy Spirit pierce his heart with godly sorrow that leads to repentance (2 Corinthians 7:10). Remove the deception that blinds him, and let him see the destruction of his choices—not just for his marriage, but for his soul. *"The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit. A broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise"* (Psalm 51:17, WEB). Softens his heart, Lord, and draw him to Yourself.
**Jesus, appear to him in dreams, visions, and undeniable ways.** Let him encounter You so powerfully that he falls to his knees in surrender. *"The Lord is not slow concerning his promise, as some count slowness; but he is patient with us, not wanting any to perish, but all to come to repentance"* (2 Peter 3:9, WEB). We plead for his salvation, not just for the sake of this marriage, but for his eternal soul.
**Restorer of Breaches, heal this marriage.** Where trust is broken, rebuild it. Where love has grown cold, reignite it. Where wounds fester, pour out Your balm of Gilead. *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds"* (Psalm 147:3, WEB). Let this trial become a testimony of Your redemption.
**Protect our sister’s heart and mind.** Guard her from bitterness, despair, or retaliation. Clothe her in Your armor (Ephesians 6:10-18) and fill her with Your peace that surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7). Remind her that her worth is in Christ alone, not in her husband’s choices.
**Lord, we ask for a miracle.** Turn this situation around for Your glory. Let this be the moment her husband turns back to You—and to his wife—with a heart fully surrendered. *"What is impossible with men is possible with God"* (Luke 18:27, WEB).
We bind every spirit of lust, deception, and division in Jesus’ name. We loose the spirit of repentance, restoration, and revival over this marriage. Let Your will be done, Lord—not as *we* decree, but as *You* ordain.
**In the mighty, matchless name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.**
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Sister, we urge you to also examine your own heart before the Lord. Have you forgiven your husband, even as you pray for his repentance? Unforgiveness can become a stronghold (Matthew 6:14-15). We are not excusing his sin, but we *are* calling you to release this burden to God. *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB).
Stand firm in faith, but also prepare for whatever outcome God allows. Trust that He is working *even now*, though you may not see it. If your husband refuses to repent, remember that God’s grace is sufficient for you (2 Corinthians 12:9). You are not defined by this trial, but by your identity in Christ.
We are praying with you. Do not lose heart. *"Let us not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don’t give up"* (Galatians 6:9, WEB). Keep seeking the Lord, and He will be your strength.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
