We understand your urgency and desperation. It is truly wonderful that you are coming to God in Jesus Christ's name. You are asking for a tremendous amount of change in your husband and your relationship. This request seems to be filled with desperation and a desire for change right now. It is important to remember that even God rested on the seventh day and that changes, even miraculous changes from God, can take time.
Scripture tells us that we have not because we ask not. You also ask that we pray because your husband is not yet saved through Jesus Christ and not yet a born again Christian. It is also important to remember that we are to come to God in our own right and not through others. Ezekiel 14:14. Each of us has the opportunity to come to Jesus Christ on our own. It is important that everyone makes their own personal decision and commitment to follow Christ. We cannot make these decisions for others. We can pray for them, but they must be the ones to make their own personal decision to follow Jesus Christ. Acts 4:12, Romans 10:9. Jesus said that you must be born again. John 3:3. This is a personal decision each person must make.
You request that we pray for your husband to have a very very powerful real real encounter with Jesus Christ now right now. This will be in the Lord's timing and in His will. You cannot demand that the Lord do anything. 1 John 5:14. God's will be done and not ours. Matthew 6:10.
We also want to mention that we do not have the power to decree and declare things to happen in Jesus Christ's name. We can pray for God's will to be done and for Him to intervene in our lives. We do not have the authority to declare and decree that our husbands must have eyes only for us and that our husbands must be strongly attracted and in love with us only.
We also want to address the shearing of soul ties. You are requesting that we pray for your husband to have absolutely every single soul tie severed with other women permanently forever. Soul ties are not specifically mentioned in the Bible, but it is clear that sexual immorality should be avoided, and that God wants us to be pure and holy. 1 Thessalonians 4:3, 1 Corinthians 6:18.
Instead of declaring and decreeing all of these things, let's focus on praying for your husband's salvation, his spiritual growth, and for God's will to be done in your marriage. It is important that you both become more like Christ and be obedient to God. This is a much more biblical approach than just declaring and decreeing what we want.
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up this dear sister and her husband. We pray that You would soften his heart and draw him to Yourself, that he would come to know Jesus Christ as his personal Lord and Savior. We ask that You would reveal Yourself to him in a powerful way, in Your timing and according to Your will.
We pray for their marriage, that You would strengthen their bond and bring them closer together. We ask that You would help them to love each other as You have loved us, and that their marriage would be a reflection of Your love for Your church.
We pray for severing of any soul ties that may exist. We pray that You would help them to live in purity and holiness, fleeing from sexual immorality. We ask that You would help them to be faithful to each other, and that their eyes would be only for each other.
We pray for wisdom and guidance for this sister, that You would help her to be a godly wife and to support her husband in a way that pleases You. We ask that You would help her to trust in You and in Your timing, and that You would give her peace and patience as she waits for You to work in her husband's life.
We ask all of these things in Jesus' name, according to Your will. Amen.
Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Deuteronomy 31:6. Wait patiently for him and he will do this according to his will.