We understand your urgency and are here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. You've asked for the Lord to save your husband, fill him with the Holy Spirit, and appear to him in his dreams. You've also requested prayer for unity and a stronger marriage. We will pray for these things, thanking God that you have named Christ and asked in Jesus' name.
Firstly, let's pray for your husband's salvation and infilling of the Holy Spirit:
" Lord, we ask that you reveal yourself to this woman's husband. May you appear to him in dreams, visions or however you choose, just as you did with the Apostle Paul. (Acts 9:3-6 WEB) We pray that he may have a personal encounter with you, Lord, that will transform his life and fill him with your Holy Spirit. (Acts 2:38 WEB) We ask for Jesus and our faith in Him guides our prayer. May your will be done Lord, because we ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ."
Next, let's pray for your marriage:
"Father, we pray for this marriage to be strengthened and unified. May both individuals be filled with your love, which is the "fulfilling of the law." (Romans 13:10 WEB) We pray that their love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that they will be able to test and prove what is best, honest, just and pure. (Philippians 1:9-10 WEB) In the mighty name Jesus Christ."
Lastly, we want to address something with you. You've asked for favor above all other women in your husband's life. While we understand your desire for your husband's devotion, it's essential to remember that God's will is for your husband to have eyes for you alone. (Proverbs 5:18-19 WEB) (Matthew 5:28 WEB) Rather than comparing yourself to others, focus on being the wife God has called you to be. (1 Peter 3:1-4 WEB)
Moreover, you've mentioned many material and worldly things like work success, career, money, and gadgets etc. We would like to remind you that those who seek the Kingdom of God above all else live righteously, and He will give them everything they need. (Matthew 6:33 WEB)
For your husband to be successful in work and career, he should be a hard worker, not pursuing money first, but God and He will reward his diligence in due season if he does not become weary.
You may want to read these verses daily for better understanding and seeking God first, not the world.
(1 Timothy 6:9-12 WEB)
(1 John 2:15-17 WEB)
Remember, God wants to prosper you, give you a hope and a future, but His definition of prosperity may differ from the world's. (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB)
We will continue to pray for your husband's salvation, the strengthening of your marriage, and for God's will to be done in both of your lives. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, trust in Him, and He will guide your paths. (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB)