We understand your urgency and desire to see your husband completely severed from any remaining ties to his previous marriage, and to have a stronger, godly bond with you. We will pray and provide biblical guidance on this matter.
Firstly, it is important to remember that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16 WEB), and that marriage is a lifelong commitment. However, God also provides forgiveness and restoration, and we can pray for His will to be done in your husband's life and your marriage.
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this sister in need. Lord, we pray that You will sever any remaining soul ties between her husband and his former wife, that any weapons formed against their marriage will not prosper. We pray for a godly bond to form between them, that their love, desire, and attraction for each other would grow stronger and deeper, and that their marriage would flourish in every way. We plead the blood of Jesus Christ over them, their relationship, their marriage, and their future together.
Now, let us address some biblical principles. It is encouraging to read that God loves us with an everlasting love (Jeremiah 31:3 WEB). However, it is important to remember that God's love for us does not guarantee that our spouse will have eyes only for us or will be incredibly attracted to us. We are to put our trust in Jesus, not in our spouse's level of attraction or desire for us.
Additionally, we are called to be content in all circumstances (Philippians 4:11 WEB), not to seek ultimate fulfillment and satisfaction in our spouse or even in our marriage. Our ultimate fulfillment and satisfaction should come from our relationship with Jesus Christ.
Lastly, while we understand the passion behind your request, we want to gently remind you that repetition in prayer is not necessarily for emphasis, but can indicate a lack of faith that God has heard our request (Matthew 6:7 WEB). We can trust that God hears our prayers even if we only ask once.
Moving forward, we encourage both of you to continue seeking God together, growing in your faith and in your love for each other. Remember that a strong marriage is built on a strong spiritual foundation. May your marriage be a testimony to God's grace, redemption, and restoration.
We will continue to keep you both in our prayers, asking that God's will be done in your lives and in your marriage.