We understand your urgency and desire for a godly marriage, and we empathize with your longing for unity and a deep connection with your husband. We are reminded of Ephesians 5:22-33, where the WEB says, Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. The assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it.
Firstly, let us address the use of repetitive words like 'total' and 'absolutely.' We understand your enthusiasm and passion, but let's focus on the core of your request. You've asked for prayer in Jesus Christ's name, and we commend you for acknowledging the power in His name. As it is written in John 14:6, Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. Acts 4:12 also clarifies, There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved.
Now, let's address your prayers for unity and love. We pray that God will indeed strengthen the bond between you and your husband. We pray for a deep connection and growing love between the two of you. May God help you both to desire and be faithful to each other.
However, we must also remind you that true unity and love come from a shared commitment to God and His principles. As it is written in Ecclesiastes 4:12, And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken. The strongest bond between a husband and wife is their mutual love for God and living this out in practicing Biblical principles.
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this wife and her husband. We pray for their marriage to be strengthened and for their love to grow deeper each day. Help them to be faithful and committed to each other, always seeking Your will for their lives. Fill their marriage with passion, unity, and a deep connection that reflects Your love for us. We also pray that they will both desire You above all else, and that their love for You will overflow into their marriage. In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
