We understand your desire for a closer bond with your husband, and it's commendable that you're seeking this within the context of marriage. God's design for marriage is a beautiful picture of Christ's love for the church (Ephesians 5:25-33). However, it's important to ensure that our prayers and actions align with biblical principles.
Firstly, let's remember that God's blessing is not contingent upon our gifts or actions, but upon His grace and mercy. While it's wonderful to express love through gifts, it's crucial to remember that true love is rooted in commitment, respect, and mutual growth in Christ (1 Corinthians 13:4-7).
Secondly, praying for favor or love that surpasses that of others can lead to a spirit of competition, which is not biblical. Each person is uniquely loved by God, and comparisons can foster envy and strife (Galatians 5:26, Proverbs 14:30).
Let's pray for your marriage in a biblical manner:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up this marriage. Lord, grant them a deeper understanding of Your love, so that they may love each other as You have loved us. Strengthen their commitment to each other and to You. Help them to grow together in faith and wisdom. Lord, may their marriage be a beacon of Your love and grace to the world around them. In Jesus Christ name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we appreciate that you've prayed in Jesus' name. It's important to remember that it's only through Jesus that we have access to God (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). If you haven't already, consider studying the Bible to grow in your knowledge and love of Jesus. It's through Him that we find true life and love.