We understand your fervent plea for your husband's heart to be drawn to you, and we will pray with you. However, we must address a few things before we begin praying together.
Firstly, we notice that you are asking for your husband to have an overwhelming attraction and desire for you, which is understandable as it aligns with the desire to be loved and cherished by your spouse. However, it's important to remember that true love is not about controlling or manipulating someone's emotions but rather about mutual respect, understanding, and a deep commitment to each other and to God. As it is written in Ephesians 5:25 WEB: "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it."
Secondly, we want to address the repetitive use of words like "incredibly" and "absolutely." While we understand your enthusiasm and desperation, it's important to remember that God hears our prayers even when we use simple and straightforward language. There's no need for repetition or exaggeration when communicating with the Lord. As it is written in Matthew 6:7 WEB: "In praying, don't use vain repetitions, as the Gentiles do; for they think that they will be heard for their much speaking."
Lastly, and most importantly, we notice that you ended your prayer with "in Jesus Christ names." While we understand your intent, it's crucial to use the correct phrasing as it reflects our belief in the power and authority of Jesus Christ. The correct phrasing is "in Jesus Christ's name" or "in the name of Jesus Christ." As it is written in John 14:13-14 WEB: "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it."
Now, let us pray with you:
Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister and her husband. Lord, we pray that you would draw their hearts together, that they may love and cherish each other as you intended. We pray that their marriage would be a reflection of your love for the church, a love that is pure, selfless, and unconditional. We ask that you would help them to see each other through your eyes, to forgive each other's shortcomings, and to strive to be a blessing to each other every day. We rebuke any spirit of manipulation or control and pray that their love would be genuine and rooted in you. In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue praying for your husband, but also to trust in God's timing and will. Remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts. He is working everything out for your good and His glory, even when we can't see it. As it is written in Romans 8:28 WEB: "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."
Lastly, we encourage you to spend time in God's Word, seeking His will for your marriage. Remember that a godly marriage is not about having your desires met but about serving God together. As it is written in Ecclesiastes 4:12 WEB: "Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken." With God at the center of your marriage, you can face anything that comes your way.