We understand your urgency and desperation, but we need to address several issues in your request. Firstly, you've used "###" as a placeholder for a name, but it's important to use the actual name when praying to have a specific focus. Secondly, we do not pray against someone's free will or for the destruction of other relationships. God grants each person free will, and manipulating someone does not work with God's plan of salvation but instead Glorify God in all things. His will should never be forced.
While marriage is God's plan and is a very important decision. Our goal is to not be unequally yoked.
"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what partnership can righteousness have with wickedness? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?" 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB
A spouse should be another Christian believer.
We also want a spouse to be attracted to us and love us. This should be the natural attraction of the courtship. A spouse should be very eager to make you happy.
"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it" Ephesians 5:25 WEB
"Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord." Ephesians 5:22 WEB.
"In the same way, husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself." Ephesians 5:28.
God’s plan is for a Christian marriage with the values outlined in the Bible. The biblical family roles in courtship, engagement, and marriage should be followed.
The Bible teaches that a husband should love his wife as Christ loved the church and gave himself for it. This is a high standard of love that is sacrificial and unconditional. A wife should respect her husband and be subject to him as the head of the household. This does not mean that the wife is inferior to the husband, but rather that they have different roles and responsibilities in the marriage.
The Bible also teaches that marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman.
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this individual seeking Your will for their life. We pray for clarity in their courtship situation, that it may align with your will and Biblical principles. If they are not yet serving you then we pray that they come to the saving knowledge of Jesus Christ. If the other person or persons are following false religions or even possibly witchcraft or the occult then we pray that they come to the saving knowledge of Jesus Christ.
"because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart man believes, resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth he confesses, resulting in salvation." Romans 10:9-10 WEB
"For whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.' How then will they call on him in whom they have not believed? How will they believe in him whom they have not heard? How will they hear without a preacher?" Romans 10:13-14 WEB
If they are already saved by the blood of Jesus then we pray for them to pursue a God-honoring courtship and marriage that aligns with Your Word. We pray for Godly spouses and marriages that honor You. If there is any fornication or sexual immorality we pray for it to be addressed. It should be put away and the guilty party or parties should repent.
"Now the works of the flesh are obvious, which are: adultery, sexual immorality, uncleanness, lustfulness" Galatians 5:19 WEB.
We pray for them to be equally yoked with another Christian believer. We pray for God's will and plan to be fulfilled in their lives.
"and I will pray to the Father for you, and he will give you another Friend, to be with you for ever," John 14:16 WEB.
Lord, bless them and make them a blessing to others in the name of Jesus Christ.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to seek God's will and align your desires with His Word. Trust in His timing and plan for your life.
"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB.