We understand your urgent desire for a godly and intimate relationship, but we need to address several issues in your request to align it with biblical principles.
Firstly, it's important to note that the only way to God is in the name of Jesus Christ. The Bible tells us, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" . It is wonderful that the requester is praying in Jesus name. However, it is also important to understand while God cares about every aspect of our lives including our intimate relationships, our relationship with Him is even more important. The most important thing is that both individuals are believers in Jesus Christ.
In your requests we see the name of Jesus Christ and the fact that you are requesting to be closer in a relationship. Normally, we would rebuke a request about a relationship if it was not expressed to be a courtship that is leading to marriage as relationships should be. However, we see that marriage is mentioned in the request. It is also very important to note that it is God's Word that tells us what marriage is. The Bible tells us, "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh" .
In your request is expressed the desire to not only be in a relationship, but also for the love and desire to grow stronger and more passionate. We rebuke this. The Bible tells us, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled. But God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers" . We understand your desire to grow in love and passion, but it is extremely important that this be contained within the bounds of marriage. We must be careful to not let our passion, thoughts, or desires cause us to stumble. The Bible tells us, "But each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own desire and enticed." .
Therefore, we pray that God will bless your relationship in the right ways and give both of you a discerning heart and self-control. We pray that your relationship will grow in love, commitment, and purity as guided by the Word of God. We pray that both of you will be a Christian believer and will continue to grow in the knowledge and love for Jesus Christ. If both spouses are not believers then the Bible tells us, "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness" .
We pray that God will bless your future marriage and make it strong, deep, and flourishing in every way. We pray that God will protect your relationship and make it a testimony of His love and faithfulness.
"Be sober-minded and alert. Your adversary the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour. Withstand him firm in your faith, knowing that your brothers who are in the world are undergoing the same sufferings. Now may the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after you have suffered a little while, perfect, establish, strengthen, and settle you. To him be the glory and the power forever and ever" .