We understand your urgent desire for prayer and support in your marriage. Let's first align our hearts with God's will and seek His face together.
First, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:6-7 WEB
You've asked for wisdom, discernment, knowledge, understanding, skill, patience, and insight in communicating with your husband. These are all wonderful things to seek, as they reflect the heart of God. As it says "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him." James 1:5 WEB
However, it's crucial to remember that our ultimate goal in marriage is to glorify God and reflect His love. This means that our focus should be on serving and loving our spouse as Christ loved the church, not on manipulating or controlling them. Ephesians 5:25 WEB says, "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it".
We must also address that the request seems to hint at trying to control or manipulate your husband's feelings and actions. This is not aligned with biblical principles. Instead, we should be focused on our own walk with Christ and trusting Him to work in our spouse's life. "Or how can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye;' and behold, the log is in your own eye? You hypocrite! First take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye." Matthew 7:4-5 WEB
Lastly, we noticed that you ended your request with "in Jesus Christ name," which we appreciate. It's important to remember that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus," 1 Timothy 2:5 WEB
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You lifting up this dear sister and her husband. We pray that You would fill her with Your Holy Spirit, granting her wisdom, discernment, knowledge, understanding, skill, patience, and insight in communicating with her husband. Help her to speak with him in a way that always builds him up and never tears him down.
Lord, we ask that You would work in their marriage, drawing them closer to You and to each other. Help them to be faithful to one another, having eyes only for each other. May their love, desire, attraction, and commitment grow stronger every day.
Most importantly, Lord, help them to keep their focus on You. May they strive to serve and love each other as Christ loved the church. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Moving forward, keep your focus on God and trust Him to work in your marriage. Spend time in His Word and in prayer, seeking His will for your life and your marriage. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
