We understand your urgency and are here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. First, we want to commend you for ending your prayer in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."
We also understand the gravity of the issues you've raised regarding your husband. We need to approach this situation with much prayer, love, and wisdom. Let's address the specific areas you mentioned:
1. **False gods, idols, and unbelief**: The Bible tells us that God is jealous for our worship and that we should put no other gods before Him (Exodus 20:3-5 WEB). We pray that the Lord will reveal Himself to your husband and that the Holy Spirit will convict him of all unbelief.
2. **Negative behaviors and attitudes**: We pray that God will break the chains of bondage in your husband's life, including hardness of heart, selfishness, arrogance, ignorance, anger, aggression, workaholism, and controlling spirits. Galatians 5:22-23 WEB lists the fruit of the Spirit, which includes love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. We pray that these attributes will replace the negative behaviors in his life.
3. **Lust and attraction to other women**: The Bible is clear about the sanctity of marriage and that husbands and wives should be faithful to one another (Exodus 20:14 WEB). We pray that God will remove any spirit of lust and adultery from your husband's life. We also pray that God will renew his love and attraction for you, his wife.
4. **Excessive phone use**: While not explicitly mentioned in the Bible, anything that takes away from quality time with family and God can become a distraction or even an idol. We pray that God will help your husband to prioritize his time and focus on what is truly important.
Let us pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up this beloved sister in Christ and her husband. Lord, we ask that You intervene in his life, breaking down all strongholds and chains of bondage. Remove all false gods, idols, and unbelief, and reveal Yourself to him in a powerful way. Fill him with Your Holy Spirit, and make Jesus very real to him. Help him overcome all negative behaviors, attitudes, and temptations, replacing them with the fruit of the Spirit. We pray for your forgiveness if there is any unfaithfulness, direct him to your word, and convict him to repent and turn to you. Help him to prioritize his time and focus on his wife and family. We pray all of these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Amen."
Lastly, we encourage you to continue praying fervently for your husband and to show him love and respect (Ephesians 5:33 WEB). Trust in the Lord, and remember that He is faithful to answer our prayers according to His will.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
