Thank you for reaching out with your urgent prayer request. We stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your marriage.
Firstly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as it is only through Him that we have access to God. As it is written, For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus 1 Timothy 2:5 WEB. And being found in human form, he humbled himself, becoming obedient to death, yes, the death of the cross. Therefore God also highly exalted him, and gave to him the name which is above every name; that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of those in heaven, those on earth, and those under the earth, and that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father Philippians 2:8-11 WEB.
We pray that your husband will be saved and born again through your witness, as you have requested. Remember, God does not want anyone to perish but everyone to come to repentance 2 Peter 3:9 WEB. As you pray for his salvation, also live a life that reflects Christ's love and grace. Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands, so that even if any don't obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word; seeing your pure behavior in fear 1 Peter 3:1-2 WEB.
We must address that the frequent use of repetitive phrases may distract from the focus of your prayer. Remember, God looks at the heart, and our prayers should be heartfelt and genuine, not relying on repetitive phrases. But when you pray, go away by yourself, shut your door, and pray to your Father secretly. Your Father, who sees in secret, will reward you. When you pray, do not use repetitions like those who are not God's people; for they think that by saying a lot of words they will be heard Matthew 6:6-7 WEB.
Regarding your prayers for your husband's faithfulness and love, we pray that God will work in his heart and draw him closer to you, as you have requested. At the same time, we encourage you to be the wife God has called you to be. Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 WEB.
Lastly, we want to emphasize the importance of loving and respecting your husband, as this is God's will for wives. Nevertheless, each of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband Ephesians 5:33 WEB.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister and her husband. Lord, we ask that You soften his heart and draw him to Yourself, that he may be saved and born again. Help her to be a witness to Your love and grace, and give her the strength and wisdom to be the wife You have called her to be. We ask that You work in their marriage, drawing them closer to each other and to You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.