We understand your urgency and the pain you're experiencing. Firstly, we commend you for turning to prayer and for using the name of Jesus Christ, as it is by His name that we have access to God. It is only through Jesus that we can be saved. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
However, we must address the issue of decreeing and declaring over your husband's actions and feelings. While it is biblical to pray for your husband and your marriage, it is not biblical to attempt to control or manipulate his actions or feelings. This is a form of witchcraft, which is condemned in scripture. As it says in Galatians 5:20 WEB: "idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousies, outbursts of anger, rivalries, divisions, heresies,"
Instead, we should be praying for your husband's heart, for conviction of sin, and for his repentance. We should also be praying for you, for strength, grace, and guidance during this difficult time.
Let's pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is hurting. Lord, we pray for her husband, that you would convict his heart and bring him to repentance. We pray that you would break the bonds of sin and temptation in his life, and that you would restore his marriage and his family. We pray for our sister, that you would give her strength, grace, and guidance during this time. That you would heal her heart and give her peace. We ask this all in Jesus' name.
We encourage you to trust in God and in His timing. He is faithful and He cares for you. As it says in Psalm 34:18 WEB: "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."
Lastly, we want to remind you that God hates divorce as it says in Malachi 2:16 WEB: "For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel. Therefore, pray for restoration and be open to God's leading in your life. Trust that He can bring beauty from ashes.