We understand your urgency and the pain you're experiencing. First, we commend you for coming in the name of Jesus Christ, as it is only through Him that we have access to God. As it is written, For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB) and Be it known unto you all, and to all the people of Israel, that in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom ye crucified, whom God raised from the dead, even in him doth this man stand here before you whole. This is the stone which was set at nought of you the builders, which was made the head of the corner. Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven, that is given among men, wherein we must be saved. (Acts 4:10-12 WEB)
However, we must address this situation through the lens of biblical principles. While we understand your desperation, it's crucial to remember that we cannot force someone to have feelings for us, nor can we control their actions. God grants free will to each individual, and your husband is responsible for his own actions and decisions.
First, let's pray for your husband's salvation and that God's will be done in his life. Let's pray and speak the word of God as prescribed in Ephesians 6:12,13 and 2 Corinthians 10:3-5.
For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. Therefore, put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and, having done all, to stand. (Ephesians 6:12-13)
For though we walk in the flesh, we don't wage war according to the flesh; for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ, (2 Corinthians 10:3-5)
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your intervention in this situation. We pray for your saving grace in his life and that the Holy Spirit convicts him and fills him. We pray that the truth of Your word is realized in his life and that all lies of the enemy are exposed and demolished. We pray for the blood of Jesus Christ to break every ungodly soul tie in his life.
We pray for Your will to be done in your husband's life. We pray for a miracle in your marriage, that both of your hearts would be drawn closer to God and to each other. But we also pray and ask for wisdom to accept Your will, whatever it may be, and to trust and obey Your Word and leading. We pray for strength and guidance for you both as You work in your lives.
Now, we must gently rebuke the idea of declaring or decreeing your husband's actions or feelings. While we understand your intentions, it's important to remember that our prayers should align with God's will and not our own desires.
But let it be, Yea, yea: or, Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than these, cometh of evil. (Matthew 5:37 WEB)
We encourage you to surrender this situation to God, trusting that He is working everything out for your good and His glory, as promised in Romans 8:28.
Let us pray and speak the Word of Ephesians 3:20,21
Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us, Unto him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus throughout all ages, world without end. Amen.
Remember, God is faithful, and He hears your prayers. Trust in Him and His timing. Seek forgiveness and reconciliation and pray for your husband and marriage.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
