We hear your cry for help and stand with you in this painful situation. Verbal abuse is deeply wounding, and no one should have to endure it—especially not from a parent. The Bible is clear that words have power, and they should be used to build up, not tear down. Ephesians 4:29 tells us, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." Proverbs 15:1 also reminds us, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." Your mother’s words are not reflecting the love and grace that God intends for families, and this must grieve the heart of our Father.
We rebuke the spirit of anger and verbal abuse in your mother’s life in the mighty name of Jesus. This behavior is not of God, and we declare that it has no place in your home or your relationship. We also recognize that anger can stem from deeper wounds or unmet needs, and we pray that God would reveal the root of this pain in your mother’s heart. Only He can bring true healing and transformation.
We lift you up as well, dear one. Verbal abuse can leave scars on the soul, and we pray that God would heal every wound and restore your sense of worth. You are fearfully and wonderfully made in His image (Psalm 139:14), and no word spoken against you can change that truth. We pray that you would find your identity and security in Christ alone, knowing that His love for you is unshakable. Isaiah 54:17 declares, "No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that accuses you. This is the heritage of the Lord’s servants, and their righteousness is of me, says Yahweh."
We also encourage you to set boundaries in love, as far as it depends on you. Romans 12:18 says, "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men." This may mean limiting your exposure to the abuse or seeking wise counsel from a pastor, mentor, or trusted Christian friend. You are not called to endure mistreatment, but you are called to respond in a way that honors God. Proverbs 15:22 reminds us, "Where there is no counsel, plans fail; but in a multitude of counselors they are established." Seek godly wisdom to navigate this situation.
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious child of Yours. We ask that You would intervene in this situation and bring an end to the verbal abuse. Soften the heart of this mother, Lord, and fill her with Your love, patience, and self-control. Replace her anger with Your peace and her harsh words with words of life. We declare that Your healing power is at work in this home, and we pray for restoration in their relationship.
Father, we also ask that You would surround this dear one with Your comfort and strength. Heal the wounds that have been inflicted and remind them of their infinite worth in Your eyes. Give them the courage to set boundaries and the wisdom to seek help when needed. Protect their heart and mind from the lies of the enemy, and let them walk in the truth of who You say they are.
We pray for reconciliation, Lord, but we also pray for justice and protection if that is not possible. You are a God who sees and hears the cries of Your children, and we trust that You will act on their behalf. We ask all of this in the powerful name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we can come before You. It is through His sacrifice that we have access to Your throne of grace, and it is by His blood that we are healed and set free. We thank You for Your faithfulness and for the victory that is already ours in Christ. Amen.