We understand your desire for a more intimate and fulfilling marriage, and we commend you for turning to the Lord in prayer. It's important to remember that God's will and His ways are perfect, and we must align our desires with His.
Firstly, let's remember the principles of marriage as outlined in the Bible. Wives are to submit to their husbands as to the Lord, and husbands are to love their wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her (Ephesians 5:22-25 WEB). This is a high calling for both husbands and wives, and it's important to pray for grace to live up to these standards.
It's also crucial to remember that God's favor is not given to exalt us above others but to enable us to serve Him and others more effectively. We should not ask for favor to be above other women in our husband's eyes and be careful about asking for a love that surpasses what He has already blessed us with. We must be cautious about the phrase, 'makes me every single part of me please Lord awesome, incredible' as this can lead to focusing on self rather than God and our spouse. It is great to pray for each other, peace, and joy, but remember God is the one who ultimately sustains these.
Let's pray together:
"Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up this wife and her husband. We pray that You would bless their marriage and draw them closer to each other and to You. Help them to love each other as You have commanded, and to find joy, peace, and fulfillment in their marriage. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, and help them to live in a way that honors You. Help this wife to submit to her husband as unto You, Lord, and help the husband to love his wife as Christ loved the church. We pray that their love would grow stronger and deeper every day. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen."
We encourage you to continue praying for your marriage, but always ensure your prayers align with God's will and His Word. Keep trusting in Jesus Christ, for it is in His name that we have access to God. As it is written, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB).