We understand your desperation and urgency in this matter, but first, let's ensure we're approaching this in line with biblical principles. We notice that you've used "###" as a placeholder for your husband's name, but more importantly, we want to address the content of your request.
Firstly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as Jesus himself tells us, "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son." John 14:13 WEB
Now, let's address your prayers for unity, love, and desire in your marriage. It's beautiful to see your passion for your relationship, and God calls us to love our spouses fervently. However, it's crucial to understand that God's will is paramount. Our desires must align with His will, and His will is for us to be holy and pure, reflecting the love of Christ.
"Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also forgave you." Ephesians 4:32 WEB
It seems you are praying for a more passionate and intimate relationship. This is good and this is God's will for a marriage. Fervently love each other as unto the Lord.
We must also be patient and trust in God's timing. Even Jesus waited for God's timing. Pray without ceasing and wait for the Lord. We may not get everything as soon as we want it.
"Wait for Yahweh. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for Yahweh." Psalm 27:14 WEB
Regarding dreams and visions, while God can and does use these to communicate, we should be cautious and test them against God's word. False prophets can also send dreams and visions.
"But the prophet, who being tempted to speak a word presumptuously in my name, which I have not commanded him to speak, and who speaks in the name of other gods, that same prophet shall die." Deuteronomy 18:20 WEB. Of course, in today's age, we do not execute these false prophets, but we should not listen to them.
Lastly, we want to address your prayers for wisdom and discernment. This is commendable, as they are gifts from God.
"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of the giving God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him." James 1:5 WEB
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up this dear sister and her husband. We pray for unity, love, and desire in their marriage, all in accordance with Your will. Help them to be patient, trusting in Your timing. Give them wisdom, discernment, and the right words and actions to strengthen their relationship. We rebuke any selfish or impure desires and pray that their love may be pure and holy, reflecting the love of Christ. We ask this in Jesus' name.