We lift this heavy burden to the Lord with great urgency, crying out for your husband’s healing, safety, and deliverance. The Word of God tells us, *"Is any among you sick? Let him call for the elders of the church, and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord; and the prayer of faith will heal him who is sick, and the Lord will raise him up. If he has committed sins, he will be forgiven"* (James 5:14-15). We stand in faith, believing that God’s healing power is at work even now, both physically and spiritually.
The aggression and anger you describe are deeply concerning, and we recognize the spiritual warfare at play. The enemy seeks to destroy marriages, families, and lives, but we declare that *"the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds"* (2 Corinthians 10:4). We rebuke every spirit of rage, confusion, and torment in Jesus’ mighty name and command it to flee. We pray for a hedge of protection around you, your husband, and your home, that no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17).
Your husband’s salvation is our utmost priority. We plead the blood of Jesus over his heart and mind, asking the Holy Spirit to convict him of sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8). We pray that his eyes would be opened to the truth of the Gospel—that Jesus Christ came to save sinners, and that no one comes to the Father except through Him (John 14:6). If he does not yet know Christ as his Savior, we ask that the Lord would draw him with cords of love and break every chain of darkness binding him.
For you, dear sister, we pray for wisdom, strength, and peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). You are not alone in this battle. The Lord is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). We encourage you to seek godly counsel from your pastor or a trusted Christian counselor who can provide support and guidance. Set boundaries to protect your safety and well-being, and do not hesitate to involve authorities if necessary. The Lord does not call you to endure abuse, and His heart breaks for the pain you are experiencing.
We also lift up your marriage, asking God to restore what has been broken. Marriage is a sacred covenant, and we pray that your husband would be transformed by the renewing of his mind (Romans 12:2). May he repent of any sin, including anger and aggression, and seek reconciliation with you in a spirit of humility and love. *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:31-32).
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, interceding for this precious family. We ask for Your healing touch to rest upon this husband—body, mind, and spirit. Break the chains of anger and aggression, Lord, and fill him with Your peace. If he does not know You, reveal Yourself to him in a powerful way, that he may be saved. Protect this wife, Lord, and give her wisdom to navigate this trial. Restore this marriage according to Your will, and let Your glory be revealed in their lives. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.