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[Nochaeld]

Been attending a church since re-transplanting from Asia back in The States. Things with the woman we've been praying for have been “radio silence” as she has deserted me for the 16th time, this time has not spoken to me or let me see son since March 24th. She has had an online dating profile since last August, so she never discarded it while we were attempting reconciliation Jan to April. She insists she doesn’t want to reconcile, but if anyone has faith, I'll agree with You for reconciliation, first vertically to God then horizontally to covenant relationship…

Have been helping some not only with my Dad and Stepmom (Eternal Perspective, Faith in Christ Alone, Strengthening them in the Word, helping w/doctors, medicine & technology), but with continuing to witness to my "housemate" for whom God opened a door to share about Christ and does so every time we meet -- I don't take that for granted, but that Christ has placed before me an open door which no one can shut, Rev 3:8. Jesus is right that I do have "a little strength" but have been asking God to strengthen me by The Holy Spirit, Eph 3:16-20. He is moving soon and there are changes at his job, and the transformation has not yet “sunk in” (much like the disciples' growth was gradual — yet still they followed Him and still ended to have their moment of epiphany -- Matt 16:16-17 -- but I keep sharing Christ crucified to him patiently, praying for him in person and in secret as well as requesting others to pray for him — I believe he has a pastoral calling [wants to counsel] -- may God water seeds with prayer, and keep him from evil people, temptation, sin and the evil one…

Please pray for our little evangelism group, that we are STRENGTHENED, are faithful and effective (and meets every appointed time)... Please pray I learn Spanish better and for at least one woman, who prayed to receive Christ to be followed up by the right woman… As a principle, and especially at present, I do not “follow-up” or “disciple” females, but recommend them to other sisters in the church, it being proper and sound to do so, and pray she some pay her a call…

Also for the literally hundreds who have heard since last July especially, and thousands over the years — not boasting for in reality it should have been 100-fold, had only I listened more acutely, Isaiah 48:18-19… I ask for protection from temptation, sin, evil people, evil and the evil one — let him who thinks he stands take heed, 1 Cor 10:12, and Paul, knowing the insidious nature of the ancient serpent, buffets his body and makes it his slave, lest after Preaching to Others (of all things), he might be disqualified, 1 Cor 9:27... See also Ecclesiastes 12:11-12, and the conclusion of the matter is fear God, Ecclesiastes 12:13. Pastors in Asia and one here with a wife from the same country as mine are saying I have to move on in my situation. That actually gives me peace to consider if that is any umpire on decision making, Col 3:15 [1]…

I tried to be Hosea, tried to be Christ, kept my end of the agreement (to attend marriage home group and church, but she did not attend, was returning to her home province and I grew impatient after finding out she had had other boyfriends and was still denying stolen money and just figures she can do better and break the vows. I'd still be willing to reconcile were she saved and repentant, (or at least humble enough to live peaceably, and I with her, Ho 3:1-4, 1 Cor 7:12) but she doesn't has neither the wisdom, humility or compassion for our son that Gomer did, not (at least at this point) willing to even reply to texts, take calls or say anything with a glimmer of hope there… I wouldn't ask but I need some signs here, Lord...

Pray for her salvation, my son’s protection and miraculous upbringing in the Lord by extraordinary means, my wisdom and direction and God continues to sanctify and use me in any way He wants. Clarity, vision and direction. Strength to know and do god’s will. Deliverance, salvation, protection, Matt 6:13, repentance, 2 Cor 7:10, 2 Pet 3:9, protection from evil people, imposters, 2 Tim 3:13, and the evil one John 17:15, through Jesus The Name above all names, Eph 1:20-22, Phil 2:9-11. With thanksgiving we offer these requests through The Mediator who can sympathize with our weaknesses, Heb 4:14-15, upon whom we cast our cares, 1 Pet 5:7, exchanging them for His peace, Phil 4:6-7. Thank you in Jesus’ Name

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Articles]

We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up your situation with deep compassion and a shared burden for the pain you are enduring. The silence from your wife, the separation from your son, and the weight of this broken covenant are wounds that only the healing touch of Jesus can mend. Yet we stand firm in the truth that God is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Your faithfulness in this trial, seeking reconciliation vertically with God before horizontally with her, is a testament to your trust in His sovereignty, even when the path is dark.

The repeated desertion and the presence of that online dating profile reveal a heart hardened not only toward you but toward the Lord’s design for marriage. Scripture is clear: "What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate" (Mark 10:9). Yet we also see the reality of sin’s corruption, for she has not only broken her vows to you but has resisted the call to repentance and humility. Your willingness to reconcile if she were saved and repentant is a reflection of Christ’s love, but we must also acknowledge the wisdom of the pastors who urge you to consider moving forward. The peace you feel in this possibility is not coincidence, it may be the Holy Spirit’s guidance, for "the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:7).

Your obedience in not pursuing one-on-one discipleship with women is commendable and aligns with the biblical principle of avoiding even the appearance of evil (1 Thessalonians 5:22). It is right to entrust new believers to the care of godly sisters in Christ, and we pray that the woman who recently received Christ will be connected with a faithful mentor who can nurture her faith.

The fruit of your evangelism, despite the enemy’s attempts to discourage you, is a sweet aroma to the Lord. Every seed planted, every soul witnessed to, is precious in His sight. We rejoice that God has opened a door with your housemate, and we pray that the Holy Spirit will continue to water those seeds until they burst forth in salvation. Your humility in recognizing that you could have done more is a mark of spiritual maturity, for God resists the proud but gives grace to the humble (James 4:6). Yet we also declare that His grace is sufficient for you, and His power is made perfect in your weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9).

The battle for your mind and heart is real, and we stand with you against the schemes of the evil one. The enemy seeks to sift you like wheat, but Jesus has prayed for you that your faith would not fail (Luke 22:31-32). We rebuke the spirit of discouragement and declare that you are more than a conqueror through Him who loves you (Romans 8:37). Your vigilance in guarding your heart, buffeting your body and making it your slave, is a model of spiritual discipline, for "the one who endures to the end will be saved" (Matthew 24:13).

For your son, we cry out for divine protection and miraculous intervention. May the Lord raise up godly influences in his life, mentors, teachers, and even strangers, who will speak truth and love into his heart. May he come to know Jesus as his Savior and walk in the fullness of His purpose. For your wife, we pray for a supernatural work of conviction. May the Holy Spirit bring her to her knees in repentance, that she might experience the freedom and joy of salvation. Until then, we trust in God’s promise that "the Lord is near to all who call on Him, to all who call on Him in truth" (Psalm 145:18).

We also lift up your evangelism group, asking the Lord to strengthen and unify you. May you be filled with boldness and clarity as you share the gospel, and may the Holy Spirit move in power to draw souls to Christ. Your desire to learn Spanish is a practical step of obedience, and we pray that God would grant you fluency and favor as you minister to the Spanish-speaking community.

Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the Name above all names, the only Mediator between God and man (1 Timothy 2:5). We ask for Your divine intervention in this situation. Heal the brokenness, restore what has been lost, and redeem every moment of pain for Your glory. Give our brother wisdom to discern Your will and the strength to walk in it. Protect his heart from bitterness and his mind from doubt. Fill him with Your peace, which transcends all understanding, and let Your joy be his strength.

We declare that no weapon formed against him will prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that the gates of hell will not prevail against the work You are doing in and through him (Matthew 16:18). We pray for breakthrough, first in his own heart, then in the lives of those he ministers to, and ultimately in the salvation of his wife and the restoration of his family. May Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.

We cast all these cares upon You, Lord, for You care for us (1 Peter 5:7). Thank You for Your faithfulness, Your mercy, and Your unfailing love. We trust in You alone, for You are our Rock, our Fortress, and our Deliverer. In the precious and powerful name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We understand the deep heartache you're walking through with this silence from your wife and the distance from your son. It's clear you've poured out your life in faithfulness, even when it feels like the seeds you've planted haven't taken root yet. We want you to know we're standing with you in prayer, asking God to hold your family close during this painful time.

It takes incredible strength to keep sharing Christ with those around you, especially when your own heart feels so heavy. We pray for open doors and divine appointments, that God would use you as a vessel for His light in places you might not even see yet. And for your housemate, what a precious opportunity God has given you to plant His Word in someone's life. Keep persevering in faith.

We also lift up your son to the Lord, asking for His divine protection and care over him. May God surround him with godly influences and draw him to Himself. And for you, dear brother, we pray for your heart to be guarded, protected from bitterness, filled with peace, and strengthened by the Holy Spirit.

Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, asking for Your healing touch in this situation. Restore what has been broken, bring reconciliation where it’s possible, and grant wisdom for the days ahead. Help us to trust in Your timing and Your perfect love. In Jesus’ name, we pray.

 

[bobr69]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.