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[Azoyraurver]

Please make Christian friends. I asked for prayers to reconcile my relationship with my ex-girlfriend.

Dear Heavenly Father, I come before you, in Jesus’ name to provide you with an update on my request to reconcile my 7.5-year relationship with my ex-girlfriend. Today I was driving by her house and I saw her outside. I stopped in to say hello; she was a little bit cold when I started to talk to her, but she opened up. She’s very bitter and she still hurt. She told me a lot of how hurt she was by what happened on February 9, and I just went on to say that I did that to protect you from getting into trouble. I said I love you and you’re the only woman in my life and I want more than anything to have a second chance. I went on to talk about what I’ve been doing to be a better person. I’ve taken anger management and finished it and I’ve been going to ongoing counselling and working with our working with my church and helping out the priest to do some renovations and minor things around the church. He’s been helping me by giving me advice and talking to me about God and reconciliation. However, she’s distraught and I tell her the stuff, but it doesn’t seem to sink in yet. I still look at this as a step forward. She did say she would give me an answer or think about it and a few hours after I left I see an email in my inbox and it was her saying she doesn’t want me back and she doesn’t think that it’s gonna work out, but I’m still optimistic. I know she’s hurt and I know that it’s gonna take a little bit of work, but I just think that she will come around. I just gotta be careful about how I approach the situation and how I speak to her. I can think of a scripture that I have to be careful on my tongue; it’s James chapter 3 verses 5 & 6.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you are seeking reconciliation with your ex-girlfriend and that you have been taking steps to improve yourself and the situation. Firstly, we want to commend you for your efforts in anger management, counseling, and your involvement with your church. These are positive steps towards personal growth and spiritual maturity.

However, we need to address a few things from a biblical perspective. You mentioned that you are doing these things to win her back and that you love her and want a second chance. While your feelings may be genuine, it is crucial to align your actions and desires with biblical principles. The goal of any relationship should be to glorify God and grow closer to Him. In the context of relationships the goal should be marriage to a fellow believer and not a girlfriend or boyfriend. The Bible tells us to be equally yoked with fellow believers. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?
2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB

Additionally, we need to address the issue of fornication. You had a 7.5-year relationship with your ex-girlfriend. This is not righteous in God's eyes and considered fornication. A relationship of a man and woman should be with the purpose of becoming married and not for romance or lust.
1 Corinthians 7:2 WEB Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband.

We also want to encourage you to keep your focus on God and His will for your life. It is commendable that you are optimistic, but it is essential to surrender your desires to God's will. Remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts. Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB

Regarding the scripture you mentioned, James 3:5-6 WEB, it is a reminder to be mindful of our words. We encourage you to speak with wisdom and grace, ensuring that your words are seasoned with salt and given by the Spirit. Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.
Colossians 4:6 WEB

Let us pray together.

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in Jesus' name to lift up our brother who is seeking reconciliation. We pray that You will guide his steps and give him the wisdom to navigate this situation in a way that honors You. Help him to keep his focus on You and Your will for his life. We pray that You will soften his ex-girlfriend's heart and bring healing to her hurt. We ask that You will make it clear to both of them if reconciliation is in accordance with your will. We also pray that any relationship or marriage in his life will be to a fellow believer that is equally yoked.

We also pray that You will continue to work in his life, helping him to become the man You have called him to be. Help him to grow in grace and wisdom and live righteously, being a light to the world. Use this situation to draw him closer to You and strengthen his faith.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to continue seeking God's will and growing in your faith. Surround yourself with a community of believers who can support and encourage you in your walk with Christ. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author, and perfecter of our faith.
Hebrews 12:2 WEB.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, brother, as you navigate this journey of reconciliation. It's encouraging to see the steps you're taking to grow personally and spiritually. We're praying for you and your ex-girlfriend, asking God to soften her heart and bring healing to her hurt. We believe that God is at work in both of your lives, and we trust that He will make His will clear to you both.

We're also reminded of Philippians 4:6-7, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Let's continue to cast our cares upon the Lord and trust in His unfailing love.

Let's also remember 1 Corinthians 13:7, "Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." Let's strive to love as Christ loves us, with patience, kindness, and self-control.

We're here for you, brother. Let's keep lifting each other up in prayer and encouraging one another in love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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[Azoyraurver]

Dear friends,

Thank you for your prayers, encouragement, and scriptural guidance. Your words have helped keep me grounded in faith as I continue to walk through one of the most difficult seasons of my life. I want to share with you where I’m at — emotionally, spiritually, and relationally — because I believe God is working in ways that aren’t always visible but are deeply real.

Yesterday, for the first time since our breakup on February 9, I had a chance to speak face-to-face with my partner. It wasn’t planned — I was simply driving by when I saw her outside. She could’ve walked away or gone inside and locked the door, but she didn’t. She stayed. And we talked for almost an hour. That, to me, was no accident. I believe that was God opening a small window in the wall that’s been between us.

Throughout our conversation, she kept expressing how deeply hurt she was from what happened that day — and I heard her. I didn’t argue or make excuses. I know what I did hurt her. But I also reminded her that we can’t live in the past forever. We could spend all day going back and forth about the “why,” but healing only begins when we start looking forward. And I believe with all my heart that God is trying to heal both of us — individually first — so that, if it’s His will, He can bring us back together stronger and more whole.

She later sent me an email saying she believes it’s best to move on, and I know those words came from a place of pain. But even in that, I see signs that she’s still processing, still feeling, still wrestling. And I don’t blame her. Healing isn’t linear. It’s messy, and it hurts. But I’m not giving up. My love for her is still 100%, and my heart hasn’t changed. I’ve taken real steps to grow — I’ve been in counseling, anger management, working with my priest, attending Alpha group, volunteering at church, and surrounding myself with fellow believers. I’m not doing this to win someone back — I’m doing it because I want to be the man God has called me to be.

And if reconciliation is ever going to happen, it has to be rooted in something stronger than emotion — it has to be rooted in Christ. That’s what I told her. I want us to go to church together, raise the baby in faith, and bring God into every part of our lives — not as a symbol, but as the foundation. I want to be a spiritual leader in the home. I want her to rediscover her faith, her strength, her peace — and I want to walk alongside her, not ahead or behind, but beside her.

This relationship will be eight years this August. My goal has always been marriage. But life brought hardships — bills, personal struggles, emotional pain — and sometimes that can shift our focus. I understand that now more than ever. I’ve learned that love isn’t about avoiding storms but learning how to weather them together with God at the center.

So I continue to trust in God’s perfect timing. I continue to pray, to grow, and to surrender this relationship to Him daily. I’m not chasing closure — I’m seeking clarity through Christ. I know God is not done working. His ways are higher than mine, and His plan is greater than anything I could imagine. And if His plan is for reconciliation, then I will be ready — a new man, renewed in spirit and committed to honoring Him in every step forward.

Thank you for walking with me in this. Your prayers mean more than you know.

In Christ,

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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