We come before the Throne of Grace with you in this unspoken request, lifting it up to our Heavenly Father who knows the deepest longings of our hearts even before we speak them. How beautiful it is that you have brought this before Him in the name of Jesus, for it is only through Christ that we have boldness and access to God’s presence. *"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB).
Your faith in declaring, *"We believe and receive, according to Your will,"* is a testament to your trust in the Lord’s sovereignty. Yet we gently remind you—and all of us—that believing and receiving must always be rooted in surrender to God’s perfect will, not our own desires. *"This is the confidence that we have in him, that if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us. And if we know that he listens to us, whatever we ask, we know that we have the petitions that we have asked of him"* (1 John 5:14-15, WEB). Let us not presume upon God’s will but seek His heart in this matter, trusting that His ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:9).
If this unspoken request involves a relationship, we urge you to examine it through the lens of Scripture. Is it honoring to God? If it is a romantic relationship, is it a courtship between a man and a woman who are both believers, pursuing marriage as God designed? *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). If there is any compromise—whether in purity, commitment, or biblical roles—we lovingly call you to repentance and alignment with God’s Word. Fornication, emotional entanglements outside of marriage, or relationships that dishonor God’s design for marriage must be addressed, for *"the body is not for sexual immorality, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body"* (1 Corinthians 6:13, WEB).
If this request involves struggle, pain, or uncertainty, we remind you that God is your refuge. *"Trust in him at all times, you people. Pour out your heart before him. God is a refuge for us"* (Psalm 62:8, WEB). He is not distant in your silence; He is near, collecting every tear and working all things for your good (Romans 8:28).
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we lift this unspoken request before You, knowing that You search the hearts and understand every motive. Lord, if there is anything in this situation that is not aligned with Your Word, we ask for conviction, repentance, and the courage to walk in obedience. If it is a godly desire, we pray You would grant it in Your perfect timing and way. Give this beloved one wisdom to discern Your will, strength to surrender to it, and faith to trust You even when the answer is not what they hope for.
We rebuke any fear, doubt, or worldly influence that may be clouding their judgment. Holy Spirit, guide them into all truth. If this involves a relationship, may it be one that glorifies You—a covenant marriage built on Christ, or a courtship that honors purity and points to Your faithfulness. If it involves struggle, be their comfort and provider. If it involves sin, grant them the grace to turn away and walk in holiness.
Father, we thank You that You hear us when we pray in Jesus’ name. We declare that no weapon formed against this situation shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against it shall be condemned (Isaiah 54:17). May Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven, and may this request ultimately bring You glory.
In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.