We understand the distress and violation you must be feeling in this situation, and we want to address this with both spiritual discernment and practical wisdom. First, we commend you for invoking the name of Jesus Christ in your request, for it is only through His mighty name that we can find true protection, deliverance, and justice. As Scripture declares, *"There is no other name under heaven that has been given among men, by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). In this time of trouble, we urge you to cling to Jesus, for He alone is your refuge and strength.
The behavior you’ve described—stalking, manipulation, and invasion of privacy—is not only deeply unsettling but also contrary to the love and respect that Scripture calls believers to uphold. The Bible warns us against meddling in others' affairs and spreading strife. Proverbs 6:16-19 tells us, *"There are six things which Yahweh hates; yes, seven which are an abomination to him: haughty eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are swift in running to mischief, a false witness who utters lies, and he who sows discord among brothers."* What is happening to you reflects the work of such schemes, and it is not of God. We must rebuke this spirit of manipulation and deceit in the name of Jesus, for He has called us to walk in truth and integrity.
We also want to address the seriousness of what appears to be an attempt to compromise your private accounts, possibly with the involvement of your husband. Marriage is a sacred covenant, and while we do not know the full context of your relationship, we must emphasize that trust, honesty, and mutual respect are foundational to a godly marriage. Ephesians 5:22-33 outlines the roles of husbands and wives, calling husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church—sacrificially and selflessly—and wives to respect their husbands. If there is betrayal or collusion in this situation, it is a grievous violation of that covenant. We strongly encourage you to seek clarity and, if necessary, godly counsel to address this with your husband. If he is involved in these actions, it must be confronted with truth and repentance, for *"a house divided against itself cannot stand"* (Mark 3:25, WEB).
As for the woman who is stalking you, we must pray for her as well, for her actions suggest she is being driven by something far darker than friendship. It could be jealousy, bitterness, or even a spiritual stronghold. Jesus commands us to *"love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you"* (Matthew 5:44, WEB). While this does not mean you should tolerate her behavior, it does mean you can release her to God in prayer, asking Him to convict her heart and bring her to repentance. At the same time, you must take practical steps to protect yourself. This may include setting firm boundaries, documenting incidents, and, if necessary, involving authorities or legal measures to ensure your safety. Proverbs 22:3 reminds us, *"A prudent man sees danger and hides himself; but the simple pass on, and suffer for it."*
Let us pray together for you in this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is facing this distressing and invasive situation. Lord, You are a God of justice, and You see all that is done in secret. We ask You to expose every hidden scheme and bring to light the truth of what is happening. Protect her, Lord, from those who seek to harm or manipulate her. Surround her with Your angels and place a hedge of protection around her mind, her heart, and her home.
Father, we rebuke every spirit of deceit, stalking, and manipulation in the name of Jesus. We command these forces to flee, for they have no authority over Your child. Break every ungodly tie and sever every connection that is not of You. If there is any involvement from her husband, Lord, we ask for Your conviction to pierce his heart. Soften him to repentance and restore what has been broken in their marriage. Let truth prevail, and let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus.
For the woman who is pursuing this harmful behavior, we pray for Your mercy. Convict her heart, Lord, and show her the error of her ways. If she is being driven by jealousy, bitterness, or any other stronghold, break those chains in Jesus’ name. Lead her to repentance and redemption, for Your desire is that none should perish but that all should come to repentance.
Grant our sister wisdom to know how to respond, Father. Give her the courage to set boundaries and the discernment to know when to seek help. If she needs to involve authorities or trusted believers, provide the right people to stand with her. Let her not walk in fear, but in the confidence that You are her defender and her strong tower.
We declare Your promises over her life, Lord. You have not given her a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). No weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and those who seek to harm her will be confused and put to shame. We trust You, Lord, to bring justice and restoration. May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified through it.
In the powerful and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Finally, we urge you to stay grounded in Scripture and in prayer. Psalm 91 is a powerful reminder of God’s protection over His children. Meditate on His promises and stand firm in your faith. If you have not already, consider reaching out to a trusted pastor or biblical counselor who can provide guidance and support as you navigate this. You are not alone—the body of Christ is here to stand with you, and most importantly, Jesus is your ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).
If there is any area of your life where you need to seek forgiveness or repentance, we encourage you to do so, for *"if we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9, WEB). Walk in the freedom and authority Christ has given you, and do not allow the enemy to steal your peace. Stay vigilant, stay prayerful, and trust that God is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).