We hear the deep pain, frustration, and longing in your heart, and we lift you up before the Lord, knowing that He sees your struggles and cares for every detail of your life. You have endured unjust treatment, discrimination, and hardship, yet you have not turned away from seeking God’s will—that is a testament to your faith, even in the midst of suffering. Let us first affirm that your worth is not found in your employment, appearance, marital status, or the opinions of others, but in Christ alone, who created you fearfully and wonderfully (Psalm 139:14). Your autism does not define you—it is part of how God has uniquely designed you, and He has a purpose for your gifts, including your creativity with puppetry and voice work.
We rejoice that you called upon the name of Jesus in your prayer, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Ephesians 2:18). Your faith in Him is your anchor, and we encourage you to cling to Him even more tightly in this season. The injustices you faced at your former job were grievous—exploitation, cruelty, and discrimination are abhorrent in God’s sight. He is a God of justice, and though it may not have been made right in your eyes yet, we pray that you would trust Him to vindicate you in His timing (Deuteronomy 32:4, Romans 12:19). The pain of being mistreated, especially when you worked diligently and with integrity, is valid, and we ask the Lord to heal those wounds and restore what was stolen from you—your peace, dignity, and even the joy of that season of your life.
You expressed a strong desire to never return to zoo work, and we understand why. It’s clear that environment was toxic and even dangerous. We pray that God would close that door permanently and open new opportunities for you in puppetry, voice acting, or other creative avenues where your talents can flourish. Proverbs 16:3 says, *"Commit your deeds to Yahweh, and your plans shall succeed."* We ask the Lord to bless the work of your hands, to connect you with the right people, and to provide the resources and platforms you need to share your gifts—whether locally, at your church reunion, or even nationally. If this is His will for you, He will make a way (Isaiah 43:19). We also pray for wisdom as you pursue these goals, that you would seek godly counsel and not be led astray by well-meaning but misguided advice. Test every opportunity against Scripture, and ask the Holy Spirit to guide your steps (James 1:5).
Your request regarding hair loss reveals a deeper struggle with comparison and self-image. We gently remind you that while it’s natural to desire to feel confident in your appearance, your identity is not tied to your hair or how you measure up to others. 1 Samuel 16:7 tells us, *"Man looks at the outward appearance, but Yahweh looks at the heart."* That said, we understand that hair loss can be distressing, and if medical treatments are something you feel led to pursue, we pray that God would provide the means, the right opportunities for clinical trials, and wise medical guidance. But we also encourage you to surrender this desire to the Lord, trusting that His plan for you is good, even if it doesn’t look the way you envision (Romans 8:28). Ask Him to renew your mind and help you see yourself as He sees you—beloved, valuable, and purposefully designed (Romans 12:2).
We must address your loneliness and desire for marriage. It’s clear that seeing your peers married has stirred longing in your heart, and that is understandable. Marriage is a beautiful gift from God, designed for companionship, mutual support, and His glory (Genesis 2:18, Ephesians 5:31-32). However, we urge you to seek a spouse in a way that honors God—pursuing a godly woman who loves the Lord and shares your faith (2 Corinthians 6:14). Do not rush into marriage out of loneliness or comparison, but trust God’s timing. He knows your heart’s desires, and if marriage is His will for you, He will provide (Psalm 37:4). In the meantime, we pray that He would fill the void in your heart with His presence, that you would find deep fellowship in your church community, and that you would use this season of singleness to grow in your relationship with Him. Contentment is not found in circumstances but in Christ (Philippians 4:11-13).
We also lift up your friends who are struggling—those who are single, injured, or facing poverty. We pray that God would provide for their needs, heal their bodies, and open doors for them to live independently and with dignity. For your friend with severe autism, we ask the Lord to grant him wisdom, provision, and a supportive community that will care for him even as his parents age. God is the Father to the fatherless and the defender of the weak (Psalm 68:5), and we trust Him to be their Provider.
Lastly, we sense a spirit of restlessness and impatience in your prayer. It’s clear you want change *now*—a career, a spouse, financial breakthrough, and physical renewal. While these desires are not wrong in themselves, we encourage you to surrender your timeline to the Lord. His ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9), and His delays are not denials. Use this season to draw closer to Him, to serve others, and to prepare your heart for the blessings He has in store. Do not let bitterness or envy take root; instead, rejoice with those who rejoice and trust that God’s plan for you is unfolding (1 Thessalonians 5:18).
Let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift our brother before You, asking that You would turn his life around for Your glory. Lord, You see the pain he has endured—the injustice, the discrimination, the loneliness, and the unfulfilled longings of his heart. We ask that You would heal his wounds, restore his joy, and redeem the years that the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25). Give him wisdom as he pursues puppetry and voice work, opening doors that no man can shut (Revelation 3:8). Provide the connections, the resources, and the platforms he needs to succeed, and let his talents be used to bring You honor.
Father, we pray for his heart regarding marriage. If it is Your will, prepare a godly wife for him, a woman who will love You and encourage him in his faith. But until then, satisfy him with Your presence and teach him to find contentment in You alone. Surround him with godly friendships and a community that supports and uplifts him.
We ask for Your provision in every area of his life—financially, relationally, and physically. If it is Your will for him to participate in hair regeneration trials, make a way. But above all, help him to see himself as You see him: fearfully and wonderfully made, with a purpose and a future (Jeremiah 29:11).
Lord, we rebuke the spirits of comparison, envy, and impatience that seek to steal his peace. Fill him with Your Holy Spirit, that he may bear the fruit of patience, joy, and trust as he waits on You. Remind him that You are working all things together for his good, even when he cannot see it.
We also lift up his friends—those who are single, injured, or struggling financially. Provide for their needs, heal their bodies, and grant them hope. Be their strength and their portion, Lord.
Finally, we pray that You would protect his heart from bitterness and his mind from despair. Let him cast all his anxieties on You, knowing that You care for him (1 Peter 5:7). Renew his strength, Lord, that he may soar on wings like eagles, run and not grow weary, walk and not be faint (Isaiah 40:31).
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.