Father I pray against the disappointments, and the lies, the insecurities that Adam had to experience as a child. Father and how he had to use manipulation to obtain the love he craved for. Father I pray that You will send a mentor for this young man for him to come face to face with his fear. Father Adam is thristy for love and relationship and is in constant search for it. Father, just like Jesus said "they know not what they are doing, and forgive them". Father in Jesus and by His blood, You forgive, but heal this young man of his fear and search for love. You said "perfect love cast away fear, even fear of rejection.
Father I also pray about his instability, double-minded personality, his split personality to be healed in Jesus name. Father, send ministering angels to minister to him in Jesus name. Father, You know, that when You pour out Your Holy Fire of deliverance upon Adam's soul, he will never want anymore of this fake love, lust love. Lord Jesus pray for Adam, for You are his high priest interceding for Adam.
Father in this grandmother's church, let them start classes on purity for the young ladies and young men. For your words says that the older women must teach the young ladies, and classes for the young men to be taught about being Godly men with integrity in Jesus name.
Father show this grandmother, too, that these young ladies have like spirit as Adam and they have to take full responsability for their part in these unholy relationship.
Grandmother, I am too a grandmother, speak to your pastor about starting a class, teaching them godly virture, having an intimate relationship with Jesus, so that they will hunger and thirst after righteousness instead of lust, unholy relationship. God bless you