Father, I pray that as Dee reads what is written in this post, that her eyes will be open to the truths that are there. I pray you would guide her to scripture in your Word and I ask for the light of your word to break through what has become 'acceptable' and 'normal' in these days for a Christan. As she seeks your face, I ask that she will have an encounter that will push her on to win the race of Christ in her, the hope of glory. In Jesus name. Amen.
God has called us a holy people. Sexual sin should not have a place in our life and having an intimate, physical relationship outside of marriage is called sin. I encourage you to seek the Lord concerning this.
My friend lived with her boyfriend before she became a Christian. After becoming a Christian, her neighbor told her she was living in sin and encouraged her to take it before the Lord, which she did. He showed her in the word that, yes, being in a sexual relationship outside of marriage is sin and being unequally yoked with an unbeliever is also a sin. So she broke it off with her boyfriend. He was devastated. She told him she was a Christian and living together as a married couple was sin, and now being with him was unacceptable to God. He came to her a few months later wanting to get back together. She told him, again, no he was not a Christian. So a few months after that he came to her, told her he had given his life to Christ and he wanted to marry her. She said, yes to the marriage but that they could not be together as before until after they got married. They are both serving God mightily.
After you get married, I would be willing to pray for you to conceive and bear a healthy baby, but I can't do that now.
