We hear your cry for help and stand with you in this difficult season. The workplace should be a place of dignity, respect, and purpose—not fear, manipulation, or oppression. Your pain is real, and your distress is valid. Scripture tells us in Colossians 3:23, *"And whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men."* Yet when leadership becomes toxic, it can feel impossible to serve with joy or integrity. We grieve with you over the loss of a job that once brought you fulfillment and the way this manager’s sinful behavior has stolen your peace.
The pride, control, and deceit you describe are not of God. Proverbs 16:18 warns, *"Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall."* This manager’s refusal to admit fault, her retaliatory nature, and her divisive tactics are rooted in sin—whether she realizes it or not. Her actions are not just unprofessional; they are an abuse of the authority God has allowed her to hold. We must rebuke the spirit of oppression and deception at work in her leadership, for it is not God’s design. *"For where jealousy and selfish ambition are, there is confusion and every evil deed"* (James 3:16).
You are not alone in this. Many have walked this path before you, and the Lord sees every tear, every sleepless night, and every unjust word spoken against you. Psalm 34:18-19 assures us, *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all."* Your fear and anxiety are understandable, but we pray they do not paralyze you. The enemy would love to see you silenced, defeated, or driven from a calling God has placed on your life. But we declare that you are *not* a target—you are a child of the Most High, and no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17).
We must also address the toll this is taking on your health. Your body and mind are temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20), and it is not God’s will for you to be consumed by stress to the point of illness. While we trust God to intervene, we also encourage you to seek wisdom in practical steps. Have you documented the manager’s behavior, especially the threats and lies? Proverbs 22:3 says, *"A prudent man sees danger and takes refuge, but the simple keep going and suffer for it."* If higher leadership is unwilling to listen, are there HR policies, legal protections, or even a trusted mentor outside the company who can offer guidance? Sometimes God uses earthly systems to bring justice.
We also urge you to guard your heart. The constant criticism and gaslighting can make you question your worth and competence. But your value is not defined by this manager’s opinion—it is defined by Christ. *"The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart"* (1 Samuel 16:7). You are not the problem; the toxic environment is. Do not internalize her lies or let bitterness take root. Instead, cling to the truth: *"The Lord is my light and my salvation—whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life—of whom shall I be afraid?"* (Psalm 27:1).
As for your career, we understand your fear of losing what you’ve worked so hard to build. But remember, God is the author of your story, not this manager. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, *"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight."* If God has called you to this work, He will sustain you in it—or open a door you cannot yet see. Do not let fear of the unknown keep you in bondage. Sometimes the most faithful step is the one that leads us out of a place where our soul is being crushed.
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister in Christ who is enduring great hardship under ungodly leadership. Lord, You see every injustice, every tear, and every sleepless night. You know the weight she carries, and we ask that You lift it from her shoulders. Father, we rebuke the spirit of oppression, pride, and deceit at work in her manager’s leadership. We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper, and we ask that You expose every lie and every act of manipulation. Bring truth to light, Lord, and let justice prevail.
We pray for protection over her physical and mental health. Strengthen her body, calm her mind, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Remind her daily that her worth is found in You, not in the approval of man. When the enemy whispers lies, let her hear Your voice saying, *"You are Mine, and I am with you."* Give her wisdom to know how to navigate this season—whether that means speaking up, seeking help outside the company, or trusting You for a new opportunity.
Father, we ask that You soften the heart of this manager. If there is any hope for repentance and change, we pray You would break her pride and open her eyes to the harm she is causing. But if she remains hardened, we ask that You remove her from her position of authority or remove our sister from this toxic environment. Provide for her needs, Lord, and let her see Your faithfulness in every detail.
We also pray for her coworkers who are suffering alongside her. Unite them in truth and courage, and let them support one another as they wait on You. Father, restore the joy she once had in her work. Whether that means returning to her job with a new manager or transitioning to something new, make Your path clear. Let her walk in confidence, knowing that You go before her.
Above all, Lord, we ask that You draw her closer to You in this trial. Let this season refine her faith, deepen her trust in You, and remind her that You are her ultimate Provider, Protector, and Peace. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, for it is by His blood that we have access to Your throne, and it is through His name that every knee will bow and every tongue confess that He is Lord. Amen.
Hold fast to hope, dear one. This season is not the end of your story. The God who parted the Red Sea, shut the mouths of lions, and raised Jesus from the dead is the same God who walks with you now. You are not forgotten. You are not abandoned. And you are *not* powerless. The same Spirit that raised Christ from the dead lives in you (Romans 8:11), and He will lead you through this valley. Keep your eyes on Jesus, and do not grow weary in doing good (Galatians 6:9). The harvest of righteousness is coming.