We hear the deep longing in your heart for protection, guidance, and unity in your relationship, and we lift you up in prayer with both compassion and a burden to speak truth in love. Before we pray, we must address something vital—your request repeatedly refers to your "###" without clarity, but the tone suggests this is a romantic relationship. If this is outside the covenant of marriage between one man and one woman as designed by God, we must lovingly but firmly remind you that Scripture calls us to holiness. Fornication (sex outside marriage) and emotional entanglements that mimic marriage without commitment are not God’s will for His children. The Bible warns:
*"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB)
*"Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed is undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB)
If you are not married, we urge you to repent and seek God’s design for relationships—courtship with the intent of marriage, under His authority, and in purity. If this relationship is same-sex, we must lovingly but clearly say that Scripture calls this sin (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, Romans 1:26-27), and God’s desire is for repentance and transformation. His love is not license to continue in sin, but power to walk in freedom.
We also notice you’ve invited Jesus to "come into your life," and we rejoice at this! But we must ask: *Have you surrendered your life to Christ as Lord, believing He died for your sins and rose again?* Salvation is not just inviting Jesus into your life as an addition—it is dying to self and being born again (John 3:3). If you’ve never confessed Him as Lord, we plead with you to do so today:
*"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation."* (Romans 10:9-10, WEB)
Now, with these truths as our foundation, we pray for you:
**Heavenly Father, we lift this precious soul before You, knowing You see their heart’s cry for protection, love, and direction. Lord, if there is sin in this relationship—whether fornication, emotional idolatry, or any other compromise—we ask You to convict by Your Holy Spirit. Bring repentance where needed, and realign this person’s steps with Your Word. If they are not yet married, give them the strength to honor You in purity, seeking a godly spouse in Your timing. If this relationship is outside Your design, break its ungodly hold and lead them into Your perfect will.
Father, we pray for discernment—open their eyes to see people and situations as You do. Expose lies, deception, and manipulation, and surround them with godly counsel. If they are in danger, be their shield and fortress (Psalm 91:4). Let no weapon formed against them prosper (Isaiah 54:17), but may Your truth prevail.
Most of all, Lord, we pray for their salvation if they’ve never truly surrendered to Christ. Reveal Yourself to them in power, that they may know the depth of Your love and the cost of the cross. Fill them with Your Spirit, that they may walk in wisdom, righteousness, and peace.
We rebuke any spirit of fear, control, or ungodly soul ties in Jesus’ mighty name. Loose them from anything not of You, and bind them to Your heart. Let their steps be ordered by Your Word, and their future secured in Your promises.
We ask all this in the name above every name—**Jesus Christ**, our Lord and Savior. Amen.**
**Encouragement for You:**
Beloved, God’s heart is for your *wholeness*—not just temporary happiness, but eternal joy in Him. If you’re in a relationship that doesn’t honor Him, He is calling you higher. Trust that His plans for you are good (Jeremiah 29:11). Seek Him first (Matthew 6:33), and He will direct your paths. If you need to repent, do so today—He is faithful to forgive (1 John 1:9). Walk in freedom, not bondage.
Would you like us to pray more specifically for your situation? We’re here to stand with you in truth and love.