We understand that you are going through a difficult time dealing with a toxic individual who has caused you much trauma and suffering. It is crucial to remember that God sees your pain and He cares deeply for you. In times like these, it is essential to turn to God's Word for guidance and strength.
The Bible tells us in Romans 12:19, "Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'" It is not our place to seek revenge, but rather to trust in God's justice and timing.
We also encourage you to set healthy boundaries and seek support from fellow believers. Proverbs 4:23 advises, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life." Guarding your heart and mind is crucial in dealing with toxic individuals.
Additionally, it is important to pray for this person, as difficult as it may be. Jesus tells us in Matthew 5:44, "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you." This does not mean you should continue to subject yourself to abuse, but rather that you should release the burden of hatred and bitterness to God.
Let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister who is suffering at the hands of a toxic individual. Lord, we ask that You would heal their wounds and restore their spirit. Grant them the strength to set healthy boundaries and the wisdom to know how to respond in a way that honors You. We pray that You would soften the heart of the toxic individual and bring them to repentance. Lord, we ask that You would surround our brother/sister with a community of believers who can support and encourage them during this difficult time. We trust in Your justice and timing, knowing that You will make all things right. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue to seek God's face and trust in His plan for your life. He is faithful and will never leave you nor forsake you. If you have not already, consider seeking counsel from a pastor or Christian counselor who can provide you with additional support and guidance.
Lastly, we noticed that your prayer request did not mention the name of Jesus. It is important to remember that it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God the Father. Jesus Himself said in John 14:6, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." We encourage you to always pray in the name of Jesus, as it is through Him that our prayers are heard and answered.