Kopryth
Disciple of Prayer
This is for my daughter Hi. Good morning. There are so many issues happening back to back in her life. Sometimes she feels there is an evil problem. Some kind of witchcraft has been done. Now the issue is, she is married. They both love each other, but there is some kind of friction between them, that they keep fighting and if they fight, they become like enemies. But yes, they again come close. But it is very hectic because they and we can't live at peace. Any time they might start fighting. The fight usually happens because her partner is irresponsible and totally dependent on his parents for everything. He gives them first priority. She doesn't depend on him for anything. Money, etc. But I don't know, he has something negative about girls and girls' families that his mother keeps feeding. He also has a few bad habits, playing games for money, asking money from my daughter and others for no reason, just for games, gambling kind, and also smokes and drinks. My concern is he should listen to his wife's wishes sometimes, always giving more importance to his parents and fearing them is not good. They have property, maybe so he is insecure and scared. He should take care of his family, he should be dominating. And his parents are least bothered about him, whether he is unwell, smokes, or drinks more. They just want their son to be with them, and just listen to them and do their petty works. His mother also is very calculative about everything. She keeps feeding him negative and calculates even 10 rs of mint leaves. I feel my husband did not have good guidance. He is insecure now. And for no reason, we fight, my daughter gets angry too when he only stays in his parents' shadow. If others try to guide him, he takes it in a negative way. I feel he never understands anything. He doesn't have reasoning at all, to judge what is wrong and right. He is not a small boy now; he is an adult. Please pray for him and give me prayers through which he can come into the right path and be responsible and know his priority in life and the meaning of marriage. Because of all this, my daughter thought they should stay separately. Meanwhile, she got a job offer in another city. They both didn't have a job after marriage, so she chose to go, so that he would accompany her later. They didn't want her to go. And he didn't want to work in another city, though he didn't even have a job or anything to take care of in his hometown. She thought he would come. He was sad she went, but that was the only way she could try to make him stand on his own feet. But unfortunately, he got a job in his hometown. Don't know if it is for good or bad. He never worked there, but only that time he got a job. So I think some kind of power is there to make them far. She still supported him for that job. He is working. And he wants to go to her place after 1 year of experience at his hometown job. But I doubt this. Because something might again happen. He should have a true will to go and settle. He should be desperate to go. But he is stuck in something or his mother feeding lots of negative things. His mother simply acts as though she cares about them, but she actually wants them to keep fighting or be far from each other so that her son may not go fat from her. Due to which she may lose control over them. She only loves controlling. She is not alone; her husband is with her, and also she has a daughter. If she is alone, I understand, but now she should allow her son to succeed in his life and not be selfish. They have money and business, but they have never given him anything. So, if he should stay there, he should work on his own. Please pray God for his enlightenment. Enlighten my daughter and him. Please pray that we live together happily. And also both should have a secure job. Alleluia.
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