We understand how challenging it can be when someone in a position of authority, like a therapist, makes statements that contradict biblical truth. The claim that the Catholic Church—or any church that holds to biblical principles—is "outdated" reflects a worldly perspective that rejects the timeless truth of God’s Word. The Bible makes it clear that God’s ways are eternal and unchanging, and His truth transcends cultural trends or human opinions.
As it is written in **Isaiah 40:8 (WEB)**, *"The grass withers, the flower fades; but the word of our God stands forever."* And in **Hebrews 13:8 (WEB)**, we are reminded, *"Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever."* The church, as the body of Christ, is built upon the foundation of the apostles and prophets, with Christ Himself as the cornerstone (**Ephesians 2:20**). What the world may call "outdated," God calls eternal. His standards for holiness, righteousness, and truth do not shift with the times.
It’s important to recognize that psychology, while it can offer some helpful insights into human behavior, is ultimately a man-made discipline. When it conflicts with Scripture, we must hold fast to God’s Word as our ultimate authority. **Colossians 2:8 (WEB)** warns us, *"Be careful that you don’t let anyone rob you through his philosophy and empty deceit, after the tradition of men, after the elements of the world, and not after Christ."* If a therapist—or anyone—encourages you to dismiss biblical truth in favor of worldly wisdom, that is a red flag. True healing and transformation come from Christ, not from human ideology.
You did the right thing by not affirming her statement. In the future, you might gently but firmly respond with something like, *"I respect your perspective, but as a follower of Christ, I believe God’s Word is timeless and relevant for all generations. The church may not always align with modern culture, but that doesn’t mean it’s outdated—it means it’s standing on truth."* If she presses the issue, you can lovingly but confidently share that your faith is non-negotiable. Remember, **1 Peter 3:15 (WEB)** tells us to *"sanctify the Lord God in your hearts; and always be ready to give an answer to everyone who asks you a reason concerning the hope that is in you, with humility and fear."*
We also want to encourage you to be discerning about the counsel you receive. Not all therapy is inherently wrong—there are godly counselors who integrate biblical truth with psychological principles—but you must test everything against Scripture (**1 Thessalonians 5:21**). If this therapist continues to undermine your faith, it may be wise to prayerfully consider finding a Christian counselor who will support your walk with Christ rather than challenge it.
Let us pray for you in this situation:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister to You, asking for wisdom and discernment as they navigate conversations that challenge their faith. Lord, You are the same yesterday, today, and forever, and Your Word stands eternal. We pray that You would give them boldness to stand firm in Your truth, even when faced with worldly opinions. Guard their heart and mind from deception, and surround them with godly counsel that aligns with Your will. If it is not Your will for them to continue with this therapist, make it clear to them and provide an alternative that honors You. Fill them with Your peace and confidence, knowing that Your ways are higher than our ways, and Your thoughts higher than our thoughts. We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Lastly, we want to remind you that your identity and worth are found in Christ alone, not in the approval of others—even those in positions of authority. Stand firm in the faith, knowing that God’s truth will always prevail. If you ever feel pressured to compromise your beliefs, seek the support of your church family or mature believers who can encourage you and pray with you. You are not alone in this!