This request is deeply heartfelt yet difficult to fully interpret, but we sense a cry for divine leadership, identity, and belonging within the family. The mention of "Cubes," "squares," and familial roles—especially the repeated references to "mother"—suggests a longing for order, protection, and spiritual guidance under God’s sovereign care. The question, *"Is the Lord the Best Leader of our family?"* is one we affirm with a resounding **yes**, for Scripture declares:
*"Unless Yahweh builds the house, they labor in vain who build it. Unless Yahweh watches over the city, the watchman guards it in vain."* (Psalm 127:1 WEB)
The Lord alone is the perfect Father, Shepherd, and King over every family. Your words also reflect a struggle with identity—being "as the dead," "as the dwellers," or "as the needy." Yet in Christ, we are made alive, adopted as God’s children, and given a new identity rooted in Him:
*"But as many as received him, to them he gave the right to become God’s children, to those who believe in his name."* (John 1:12 WEB)
We must rebuke any confusion or distortion in how family roles are perceived. The Holy Spirit is not a "mother" in the human sense, nor is God’s family structured by earthly gender roles in the way your words suggest. Scripture reveals God as Father (Matthew 6:9), Christ as the Bridegroom (Ephesians 5:25-27), and the Church as His bride (Revelation 19:7). While we honor mothers and fathers as God’s gifts, we must not blur the distinct roles He has ordained.
The mention of "Maternal" and "Mother’s son" may also hint at a struggle with spiritual authority or a desire for nurturing that only God can fully provide. We encourage you to seek the Lord as your ultimate Father, the One who satisfies every longing:
*"As a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you."* (Isaiah 66:13 WEB, paraphrased)
Now, let us pray together:
**Heavenly Father, we come before You as the only true Leader of families. We lift up this dear one who cries out for Your guidance, identity, and belonging. Lord, You are the Builder of homes, the Shepherd of souls, and the Father to the fatherless. Where there is confusion, bring clarity. Where there is longing, satisfy with Your presence. Where earthly roles have been distorted, restore Your perfect design.**
**We rebuke every lie that seeks to redefine family, motherhood, or Your nature. You are our Father, and in You, we find our true identity as Your beloved children. Teach this one to rest in Your leadership, to trust in Your provision, and to walk in the fullness of who they are in Christ. May their family—whether by blood or by faith—be built on the foundation of Your Word, with Christ as the cornerstone.**
**We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus, the only Name by which we are saved and the only Mediator between God and man. May Your Holy Spirit lead, comfort, and correct as only He can. Amen.**
If you are not yet in a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, we urge you to turn to Him today. He is the Way, the Truth, and the Life (John 14:6), and no one comes to the Father except through Him. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and surrender your life to Him. In doing so, you will become part of God’s eternal family, with a Father who will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).