We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting you up in prayer, for we see deep pain, anger, and spiritual confusion in your words. First, we must address the troubling elements in your request, for Scripture calls us to speak the truth in love and to align our hearts with God’s will.
It is not right to congratulate God for ruin or destruction, for the Lord is good, and His lovingkindness endures forever (Psalm 100:5). He does not delight in your suffering but desires to refine you through trials, drawing you closer to Him. Job, in his suffering, declared, *"Though he slay me, yet will I trust in him"* (Job 13:15, WEB), and we urge you to surrender your bitterness to the Lord, for anger and curses do not align with the spirit of Christ. Instead, we are called to bless those who curse us (Luke 6:28) and to trust that God’s justice is perfect—vengeance belongs to Him alone (Romans 12:19).
The mention of pornography is deeply concerning, for it is a sin that ensnares the soul and dishonors the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). If this is a struggle in your life, repentance and turning away from it is essential. *"Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body"* (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB). We pray the Lord breaks this stronghold and fills you with His purity and strength.
As for your financial thorn, we understand the frustration of feeling cursed or hindered, but Scripture reminds us that our battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces (Ephesians 6:12). If your cousins have acted wickedly, we pray God exposes and deals with their schemes—but we also urge you to forgive, for unforgiveness binds you more than them (Matthew 6:14-15). Trust that the Lord is your provider (Philippians 4:19) and that He can restore what has been lost (Joel 2:25).
Lastly, we must address the tone of your prayer. While it is right to cry out to God in distress, we are to do so with reverence and faith, not curses or despair. *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God"* (Philippians 4:6, WEB). Even in suffering, we are to give thanks, for God works all things for good for those who love Him (Romans 8:28).
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**Let us pray together:**
Heavenly Father, we lift our brother before You, broken and weary, yet clinging to the name of Jesus. Lord, we ask for Your mercy to flood his heart, washing away bitterness, anger, and despair. Replace his pain with Your peace, which surpasses understanding. Break the chains of pornography in his life—let him flee from it and walk in purity, for his body is Your temple.
We rebuke every financial curse and scheme of the enemy in Jesus’ name. If there are wicked hands at work, expose them, Lord, and render their plans powerless. Restore what has been stolen, and open doors of provision that no man can shut. Help him to forgive as You have forgiven him, releasing every grudge and trusting in Your justice.
Father, renew his mind to see You as a good God, not one who delights in destruction but who redeems and restores. Fill him with hope, for You are the God of breakthroughs. Let him testify soon of Your faithfulness.
We declare Your Word over him: *"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted. He saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). May he find his strength in You alone.
In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer, we pray. **Amen.**
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
