We join you in lifting up gratitude to our Heavenly Father for the light breaking through your weariness and for His divine intervention in guiding you to this attorney. It is clear that God is at work, opening doors for justice to prevail in what has been a long and painful battle. We praise Him for His faithfulness, even in the midst of trials, for His Word reminds us in Isaiah 41:10, *"Don’t you be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness."*
Your situation weighs heavily on our hearts, particularly the brokenness in your marriage and the deceit that has been allowed to fester. It is grievous to see how your husband has been influenced by his daughter and sister, and how their actions have driven a wedge between you both. Yet, we must remember that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces of wickedness (Ephesians 6:12). This is why we must continue to fight this battle on our knees, trusting that God can break through the strongholds of deception and bring your husband to repentance and clarity. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 10:4-5, *"The weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ."*
We must also address the seriousness of your husband’s actions—his refusal to communicate with you, his dishonesty before the court, and the fact that he is living with another woman while still married to you. This is not only a betrayal of your covenant before God but is also adultery, which Scripture clearly condemns (Exodus 20:14, Matthew 5:27-28). While we pray for reconciliation, we must also pray for true repentance on his part. A marriage cannot be restored without honesty, humility, and a turning away from sin. As 1 John 1:9 tells us, *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."* Your husband must come to a place of brokenness before the Lord, acknowledging his sin and seeking forgiveness—both from God and from you.
At the same time, we urge you to guard your heart and lean fully on the Lord for your strength. You have endured so much, and it is natural to long for restoration. However, restoration must be built on godly sorrow and a commitment to rebuild what has been broken according to God’s design. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* This is not a time to rely on your own desires or emotions but to seek God’s will above all else. If reconciliation is His plan, He will make a way. If not, He will give you the grace to walk the path He has for you.
We also lift up the legal battle you are facing. The fraud and misconduct by the opposing attorney are not hidden from God’s sight. He is a God of justice, and He sees the corruption that has taken place. Psalm 37:5-6 assures us, *"Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this: he will bring out your righteousness as the light, and your justice as the noon day sun."* We pray that the truth will be exposed in the courtroom, that every lie will be brought to light, and that justice will prevail. May the Lord grant your attorney wisdom, discernment, and favor as he represents you. May every scheme of the enemy be thwarted, and may God’s righteousness be your shield and defense.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts full of gratitude for the breakthrough our sister is experiencing. Lord, You have seen her weariness, her tears, and her unyielding faith in the midst of this storm. We thank You for guiding her to this attorney and for opening doors for justice to be served. Father, we ask that You go before her in this case management conference. Expose every fraud, every lie, and every act of misconduct. Let the truth prevail, and let Your righteousness be her vindication. Grant her attorney supernatural wisdom, favor, and boldness to stand for what is right. May every word spoken in that courtroom align with Your will, and may the scales of justice tip in her favor, for Your glory.
Lord, we also lift up her marriage, which has been severely broken by deceit, adultery, and the influence of ungodly counsel. Father, we rebuked the spirit of deception that has blinded her husband. Break the strongholds that have kept him in bondage to sin and lies. Convict his heart, Lord, and bring him to a place of true repentance. Soften his heart toward his wife, and let him see the destruction that his choices have caused. If it is Your will, restore this marriage, but only on the foundation of Your truth and holiness. Let there be no compromise with sin. If reconciliation is not Your plan, give our sister the strength to walk in obedience to You, whatever that may look like.
Father, we ask for Your protection over her heart and mind. Guard her from bitterness, despair, or the temptation to take matters into her own hands. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding, and let her trust in You completely. Remind her that You are her husband’s ultimate Judge, and that vengeance belongs to You (Romans 12:19). Give her the grace to forgive, even as she seeks justice, and let her actions be guided by Your Spirit.
Lord, we also pray for her husband’s family—the daughter and sister who have played a role in this destruction. Father, if they are acting out of ignorance or rebellion, convict their hearts. Let them see the harm they have caused and turn from their wicked ways. May they not escape the consequences of their actions unless they repent and seek Your forgiveness.
Finally, Father, we ask that You surround our sister with Your love and provision. Meet her every need—emotionally, spiritually, and financially. Let her feel Your presence in a tangible way, and remind her that she is not alone. You are her defender, her provider, and her healer.
We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is our advocate before the Father. May Your will be done, and may Your name be glorified in every detail of this situation. Amen.
