We understand the pain and betrayal youāre feeling, and we want to lift you up in prayer with truth and wisdom from Scripture. First, we must address something critical: the term "partner" is often used in ways that do not align with biblical marriage. Godās design for relationships is clearāmarriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman for life (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If this "ex-partner" was someone you were not married to, we must acknowledge that any intimate relationship outside of marriage is fornication, which is sin (1 Corinthians 6:18, Galatians 5:19). If you were married, then divorce without biblical grounds is also sin (Matthew 5:32). We encourage you to examine your heart before the Lord, repent of any sin, and seek His forgiveness and cleansing (1 John 1:9). He is faithful to restore and heal those who turn to Him.
Now, regarding your request for God to expose the falseness of this person and their relationships, we must be cautious. While it is natural to feel hurt and desire justice, Scripture warns us against seeking vengeance or dwelling on the sins of others. Romans 12:19 says, *"Donāt seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to Godās wrath. For it is written, āVengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.ā"* Instead of focusing on exposing others, we are called to trust Godās justice and sovereignty. He sees all things, and He will deal with every heart righteously (Hebrews 4:13, Psalm 33:13-15).
We also notice that your request does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ. This is deeply important, for there is no other name by which we can approach the Father or receive salvation. Jesus Himself said, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me"* (John 14:6). And in Acts 4:12, we read, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved."* If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and commit to following Him (Romans 10:9-10). Without Christ, our prayers are empty, but in Him, we have bold access to the throne of grace (Hebrews 4:16).
As for your healing, the Lord cares deeply about your broken heart. Psalm 34:18 assures us, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* Instead of fixating on the past or the actions of others, we encourage you to surrender this pain to Jesus. Ask Him to heal your heart, renew your mind, and fill you with His peace (Philippians 4:6-7). Forgiveness is also keyānot for the sake of the person who hurt you, but for your own freedom. Unforgiveness is a heavy burden that the enemy uses to keep us in bondage. Jesus said, *"If you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you donāt forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses"* (Matthew 6:14-15).
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, knowing that You are the God who sees, hears, and heals. Lord, we ask that You would draw this person closer to Yourself through Jesus Christ. If they have not yet surrendered to Him, we pray that today would be the day of salvation, that they would turn from sin and place their full trust in Jesus as Lord. Father, we ask for Your healing touch on their broken heart. Comfort them in their pain, and replace their bitterness with Your peace. Help them to release any desire for vengeance and to trust in Your perfect justice. Cleanse their heart from any unforgiveness, and fill them with Your love and grace.
Lord, we also pray that You would expose any areas in their own life that need repentance. If there was sin in this past relationship, we ask for conviction and a heart that turns fully to You. Restore them, Father, and guide them into relationships that honor Youārelationships built on Your truth and righteousness. Give them wisdom to wait on You for a godly spouse if that is Your will, and the strength to walk in purity and holiness.
We rebuke any spirit of bitterness, resentment, or unforgiveness in Jesusā mighty name. We declare that this person is free from the chains of the past and that their future is held securely in Your hands. Lead them, Lord, and let Your light shine brightly in their life. We ask all these things in the powerful and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to meditate on Godās Word daily. Psalm 147:3 reminds us that *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."* Spend time in prayer, worship, and fellowship with other believers. Surround yourself with a community that will point you to Christ and hold you accountable in godliness. If you are struggling with forgiveness or letting go, we recommend reading Matthew 18:21-35 and Colossians 3:13. God is faithful, and He will bring beauty from these ashes (Isaiah 61:3). Trust in Him, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6).