Tacaria Bryant said:
Praise God, Now you need to go into counseling, and your family needs it more than you do. If he had suceeded, you could have been scare for life, mentally.
He is a sexual predator, and he may do it again to someone or pehaps to you again. Do not be alone with him again. Never. That is what you call attempt rape. Angels was guarding. Alex should be in definate counseling.
Rape is a form of violence. It is to punish women. It is also a form of hate, to his victim, physical, and emotionally, and a form of control. Men rape to punish women. Sometime when rejected or deprive of a mother's love. The type of men do not know what real love is about. Love would not do this to any human being only hate.
Here are some facts:
"Sexual assaults are usually perpetrated by someone that the woman is acquainted with or who she knows well, and they usually occur in a place where the woman would normally feel safe and comfortable, like her home or the home of a friend".
Another fact:
"Because of the fear of being ostracized, blamed, and not believed after surviving a sexual assault, only about 5% of sexual assault survivors report the crime to the police".
Also You can become a victim the second time, when you expose the predator. You could be blamed and not believe and that is what happened to you.
Go and do a study on rapist. Your grandmother, brother, and sister should also do a study with you.
God bless you.
A real man does not rape.