I feel like I'm so far away and not being a support to my daughter and granddaughter but I am engaged to a man in another state then my home state and I just went home in November so I am always torn about how to be there for everyone I love and who need me my fiancee just had surgery too for skin cancer so I need to be supportive to him too how can I help if I can't be in two places some people look down on me for not helping my daughter more but I am not rich and cant provide everything she needs I am being supportive as I can pray I find answers that I can somehow make things right