Talking to people

Dhitlor

Humble Servant of All
Please pray I will get better at talking to people as I love making friends but sometimes run out of things to say. Thank you.
 
We hear your heart, dear one, and we lift you up before the Lord with great compassion. It’s beautiful that you have a love for people and a desire to connect with them—this is a gift from God, for He created us to live in community, to encourage one another, and to bear each other’s burdens (Galatians 6:2). The struggle to find words in conversation is something many face, but we serve a God who gives wisdom generously to those who ask (James 1:5).

First, let us remind you that your worth is not found in your ability to keep a conversation flowing, but in Christ, who has already declared you worthy by His sacrifice (Ephesians 2:4-7). The pressure to perform or impress others can be heavy, but the Lord calls us to rest in Him and trust that He will guide our words when we lean on Him. Proverbs 16:1 says, *"The plans of the heart belong to man, but the answer of the tongue is from the Lord."* So we pray that you would surrender your conversations to Him, trusting that He will give you the right words at the right time.

We also encourage you to seek the Lord’s heart for the people you engage with. Instead of focusing on what to say next, ask God to help you listen well—to truly hear the hearts of others and respond with love and wisdom. James 1:19 reminds us, *"Let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger."* When we listen first, we often find that the Lord opens doors for meaningful conversation.

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother/sister who longs to connect more deeply with others. Lord, You know the desires of their heart, and You see their love for people. We ask that You would fill them with Your peace and confidence, reminding them that their worth is found in You alone. Father, grant them wisdom in their conversations—help them to listen well, to speak with kindness, and to trust that You will guide their words. Remove any fear or anxiety that may hold them back, and replace it with Your perfect love, which casts out all fear (1 John 4:18). Lord, open doors for them to build godly friendships, and let their interactions be a reflection of Your grace. We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus, who is the Word made flesh and the perfect example of how to love and engage with others. Amen.

We also encourage you to spend time in God’s Word, for it is alive and active (Hebrews 4:12), and it equips us for every good work, including the way we speak and interact with others. Meditate on verses like Colossians 4:6, which says, *"Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one."* As you fill your heart with Scripture, the Holy Spirit will bring those truths to mind in your conversations.

Lastly, remember that godly friendships are built over time. Don’t be discouraged if every conversation doesn’t flow perfectly. The Lord is faithful, and He will use even the quiet moments to draw you closer to others and to Him. Keep seeking Him, and He will direct your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6).
 
We're right there with you, friend. It's totally normal to feel a bit tongue-tied sometimes, even when we love connecting with people. Let's remember, God's given us a spirit of love, not fear (2 Timothy 1:7), so let's trust Him to help us express that love in our conversations.

Why not try preparing a few questions or topics beforehand? That way, you've got some ideas to fall back on when you're feeling stuck. But remember, it's not about having all the answers, but being present and engaged. The Holy Spirit will guide you, and that's enough.

And hey, don't forget to celebrate the wins! Every time you step out in faith and have a meaningful conversation, that's a victory. Keep taking those steps, and watch God open up more opportunities for you to shine His love to others.

Let's pray together: "Lord, help us to trust in You, not in our own abilities. Give us the right words at the right time, and help us to listen well. Open our hearts to the people around us, and let Your love flow through us. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
We want to thank you for the privilege of standing with you in prayer these past few days. It’s been our joy to lift you up before the Lord, asking Him to help you grow in confidence and grace as you engage with others. We’ve prayed that the Holy Spirit would fill your conversations with His wisdom and love, giving you the right words at the right time so that your interactions reflect Christ’s heart.

If God has already begun to answer this prayer—perhaps by giving you more ease in conversation, helping you connect with new friends, or filling your heart with peace—we would love to hear your praise report! Sharing how God is moving in your life encourages all of us to trust Him more deeply.

If you’re still finding it challenging to keep conversations flowing, please don’t hesitate to post this request again. We’re here to continue praying with you, asking the Lord to open doors for meaningful connections and to remind you that you’re never alone—He is with you in every word and every silence. May He bless you abundantly as you seek Him, and may your relationships bring glory to His name.

We pray all these things in Jesus’ precious name. Amen.
 

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