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Good morning, I’d like some godly counsel and biblical guidance about surrender. I pray and then take things back and try to solve it myself. Father in Jesus name please help my unbelief.
 
We understand the struggle you’re facing—the tension between surrendering to God and then taking matters back into your own hands. This is a battle many believers face, and it reveals both the weakness of our flesh and the deep desire of our hearts to trust in our own strength rather than in the Lord. Yet, Scripture reminds us that true peace and victory come only when we fully surrender to Him.

The Lord Jesus Himself addressed this very issue when a father brought his son to be healed, crying out, *“I believe! Help my unbelief!”* (Mark 9:24, WEB). This honest plea is one we can all relate to. Surrender is not a one-time act but a daily—sometimes moment-by-moment—choice to lay down our will and trust in God’s sovereignty. The apostle Paul tells us in Romans 12:1-2, *“Therefore I urge you, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service. Don’t be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God.”* Surrender is an act of worship, a sacrifice of our self-reliance in exchange for His perfect will.

Yet, how often do we pray, only to snatch the burden back from God’s hands? This reveals a heart that struggles to trust His timing, His wisdom, or His goodness. Proverbs 3:5-6 commands us, *“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.”* When we take things back, we are essentially saying, *“Lord, I don’t trust You to handle this the way I want or when I want.”* This is not only prideful but also exhausting. Jesus invites us in Matthew 11:28, *“Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest.”* Rest comes when we stop striving and start abiding in Him (John 15:5).

Your prayer—*“Father in Jesus’ name, please help my unbelief”*—is a beautiful and necessary cry. It acknowledges your dependence on God, and that is where surrender begins. But surrender also requires action. James 4:7 tells us, *“Be subject therefore to God. But resist the devil, and he will flee from you.”* Surrender is not passive; it is an active resistance against the enemy’s lies that God is not enough, that we must control the outcome. It is choosing to *“cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you”* (1 Peter 5:7).

Let us also consider the example of Abraham, who was called to surrender his son Isaac, the child of promise. Genesis 22 shows us that Abraham’s surrender was not without struggle, but he chose to trust God’s character over his own fears. Hebrews 11:17-19 tells us that Abraham reasoned that God could raise Isaac from the dead if necessary. That is the kind of faith we are called to—one that trusts God’s power and goodness even when the outcome is unclear.

We must also examine whether our lack of surrender stems from a deeper issue: unconfessed sin, idolatry (putting our desires above God), or a refusal to accept His will if it differs from ours. Psalm 66:18 warns, *“If I cherished sin in my heart, the Lord wouldn’t have listened.”* Is there something in your heart that you are holding onto more tightly than you are holding onto God? Surrender requires repentance—a turning away from self and toward Christ.

Now, let us pray for you:

Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister to You, knowing that You alone are the source of true surrender and faith. Lord, we confess that we often struggle to release our burdens into Your hands, choosing instead to rely on our own understanding and strength. Forgive us for our unbelief, for the times we have taken back what we claimed to surrender. We ask that You would increase our faith, just as the father in Mark 9 cried out for help in his unbelief.

Holy Spirit, work in the heart of our brother/sister to break down the walls of self-reliance and pride. Teach them what it means to abide in Christ, to rest in His finished work, and to trust in His perfect timing. When the temptation to take control arises, remind them of Your faithfulness and Your promise to never leave nor forsake them (Deuteronomy 31:6). Give them the strength to resist the enemy’s lies and to stand firm in the truth that You are sovereign over all things.

Lord Jesus, You who surrendered Your will to the Father even unto death (Philippians 2:8), teach us to follow Your example. Help us to say, *“Not my will, but Yours be done”* (Luke 22:42). May our brother/sister experience the peace that comes from true surrender, knowing that You are working all things together for their good and Your glory (Romans 8:28).

We rebuke the spirit of fear, control, and unbelief that seeks to keep our brother/sister in bondage. By the authority of Jesus Christ, we command these spirits to flee, and we declare that the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).

Father, we thank You that You are patient with us, that You are molding us into the image of Your Son. Give our brother/sister a fresh revelation of Your love and goodness, that they may surrender fully and walk in the freedom You have purchased for them. We ask all this in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

Finally, we encourage you to meditate on these truths daily. Write down Scripture verses about surrender and trust, and speak them aloud when you feel the urge to take control. Surround yourself with believers who can pray for you and hold you accountable. And remember, surrender is not a sign of weakness—it is an act of worship, a declaration that God is enough. Keep seeking Him, and He will faithfully complete the work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6).
 
We're right there with you, friend. Surrender can indeed be a daily struggle, especially when we're tempted to take matters back into our own hands. But remember, Jesus said, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28). Rest comes when we stop striving and start abiding in Him.

Let's pray together: "Lord Jesus, we come to You today, carrying our burdens and our doubts. Help us to trust in Your sovereignty, even when the outcome is unclear. Increase our faith, just like the father in Mark 9 who cried out, 'I believe; help my unbelief.' Help us to surrender not just in words, but in actions, resisting the enemy's lies that tell us we must control the outcome. Give us the strength to trust in Your power and goodness, even when our feelings tell us otherwise.

Father, we confess our struggles with surrender and our tendency to lean on our own understanding. Forgive us for the times we've taken back what we claimed to surrender. Help us to be subject to You, but also to resist the devil, knowing that he will flee from us. Teach us to cast all our worries on You, because You care for us.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
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