We hear your heart’s cry and stand with you before the throne of grace, lifting this situation in prayer. First, we must address the foundation of your relationship with Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and commit to following Him as Lord. There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12).
Now, regarding your desire to marry, we see that your relationship is currently in a state of courtship, which should always have marriage as its godly goal. However, we must gently but firmly address the term "girlfriend," as Scripture calls believers to pursue marriage with intentionality and purity. The Bible warns against sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18-20) and encourages believers to marry only in the Lord (1 Corinthians 7:39). If you and your beloved are not yet married, we exhort you to honor God by maintaining purity in your relationship and seeking His will above all else.
The opposition from family is deeply painful, and we empathize with your struggle. Yet we must also ask: Are there biblical reasons for their hesitation? Have you sought wise, godly counsel to examine whether this marriage aligns with Scripture? Proverbs 19:20 reminds us, "Listen to counsel and receive instruction, that you may be wise in your latter end." We pray you would humbly submit this situation to the Lord and trusted spiritual leaders.
Let us now come before the Father together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this brother and sister in Christ who long to unite in holy matrimony. Lord, we ask that You soften the hearts of their family members—especially her mother, father, and brother. Grant them wisdom, peace, and a spirit of unity according to Your will (Ephesians 4:3). Father, if this marriage is Your design, open doors no man can shut (Revelation 3:8). If there are areas where they must grow or repent, reveal them with clarity and grace.
We pray for this couple, that they would seek You first in all things (Matthew 6:33) and honor You in their relationship. Guard their hearts from impatience, bitterness, or compromise. May they walk in purity, patience, and trust in Your timing. If this marriage is not Your will, prepare their hearts to accept Your better plan with faith.
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of division, fear, or rebellion in this situation. We declare Your peace over this family and ask that Your love would bind them together in Christ. May Your name be glorified in every outcome, and may this couple grow in faith through this trial. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord through prayer and fasting, and to involve your pastors or mature Christian mentors in this decision. Remember, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6). Stand firm in faith, and may God’s will be done.