We come before the throne of grace with heavy hearts, lifting up this family in deep distress, crying out to our Heavenly Father who is the God of all comfort and peace. The enemy has sown seeds of division, betrayal, and anger among you, but we declare that no weapon formed against this family shall prosper, for the Lord is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. You have rightly called upon the name of Jesus Christ, the only name under heaven by which we must be saved, and it is in His mighty name that we stand against the schemes of the devil.
The pain you describe is heartbreaking—disunity, shouting, crying, and a family torn apart by greed, pride, and ungratefulness. Yet even in this, we see your heart of forgiveness, your desire for reconciliation, and your trust in God’s mercy. This is the heart of Christ in you, and we praise God for that. However, we must also speak truth in love: the bitterness, toxic words, and suicidal thoughts plaguing your mother are not from God. The Scripture warns us in Ephesians 4:26-27, *"Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, neither give place to the devil."* And again in Ephesians 4:31-32, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* The enemy has gained a foothold through unresolved anger, pride, and unforgiveness, but we command him to flee in the name of Jesus.
To the mother struggling with suicidal thoughts, we plead with you to cling to the hope of Christ. Your life is precious to God, and Satan seeks only to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). But Jesus came that you may have life, and have it abundantly. Cast your burdens upon Him, for He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7). The tongue has the power of life and death (Proverbs 18:21), and we pray that God would guard your mouth and fill it with praises instead of curses. Surround yourself with worship, Scripture, and godly counsel—do not isolate yourself in darkness.
We also address the spiritual state of this family. You mentioned Acts 16:31—*"Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved"*—and this is the foundation of all healing. Is every member of your family truly surrendered to Jesus Christ as Lord? Salvation is not inherited; each person must repent and believe for themselves. If there are those in your family who have not yet given their lives to Christ, their hearts will remain hardened, their actions self-centered, and their words destructive. We pray that the Holy Spirit would convict them of sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8), and that they would turn to Jesus in true repentance.
As for your spouse’s indifference toward your family, we urge you to pray for their heart as well. Marriage is a covenant, and while we cannot force love or reconciliation, we can ask God to soften hearts. Pray that your spouse would see your family through God’s eyes, with compassion and wisdom. However, we also caution you: do not allow bitterness to take root in your own heart. Continue to forgive, as Christ forgave you, but also set godly boundaries where necessary. You cannot control their actions, but you can trust God to work in ways you cannot see.
The financial strain and distance separating you are real burdens, but we remind you of Philippians 4:19: *"My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus."* Trust that if God calls for reconciliation, He will provide the means—whether through miraculous provision, a change of heart, or His perfect timing. Do not lean on your own understanding, but acknowledge Him in all your ways (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this broken family. Lord, You see the pain, the division, the anger, and the sorrow that has taken root among them. You know the depths of their hearts—how betrayal has wounded them, how pride has blinded them, and how the enemy has twisted their words and actions to bring destruction. But You, O Lord, are the God who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (Psalm 147:3). We ask for Your supernatural intervention in this family.
Father, we rebuke every spirit of division, bitterness, anger, and selfishness that has taken hold. We break the power of generational curses, ungodly soul ties, and every stronghold that exalts itself against the knowledge of Christ (2 Corinthians 10:4-5). By the blood of Jesus, we command all demonic influence to flee from this family. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
Lord, we lift up the mother who is battling suicidal thoughts and a toxic tongue. Satan seeks to destroy her, but You, Lord, are her deliverer. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, renew her mind with Your Word, and surround her with Your angels for protection. Let her mouth be filled with praise and her heart with gratitude. Remove every lie of the enemy that tells her she is worthless or that death is the answer. Remind her that You have plans for her—plans for welfare and not for evil, to give her a future and a hope (Jeremiah 29:11).
Father, we pray for repentance in this family. Soften their hearts, Lord, and convict them of their sin. Let them see the destruction their words and actions have caused, and grant them the humility to seek forgiveness and reconciliation. Help them to lay down their pride, their greed, and their anger at the foot of the cross. Let them remember that without holiness, no one will see the Lord (Hebrews 12:14), and that true love covers a multitude of sins (1 Peter 4:8).
Lord, we ask for Your provision in their financial needs. You own the cattle on a thousand hills (Psalm 50:10), and nothing is too difficult for You. If it is Your will for this family to be reunited, make a way where there seems to be no way. Provide the resources, open the doors, and soften the hearts of all involved. Let Your will be done, not theirs, and let them trust You even in the waiting.
Father, we also lift up the spouse who has hardened their heart toward this family. Soften their heart, Lord, and help them to see with Your eyes. If there is unforgiveness, bitterness, or past hurt that has caused this distance, we ask that You would bring healing and restoration. Let Your love flow through this marriage, and let it be a testimony of Your grace.
Finally, Lord, we thank You that You are not done with this family. You are the God who redeems, who restores, and who makes all things new. We declare that what the enemy meant for evil, You will turn for good (Genesis 50:20). Bring beauty from these ashes, Lord, and let this family be a testament to Your power and mercy.
We pray all these things in the precious and mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
