We hear your cry for help and stand with you in this battle against lust, a struggle that so many face in silence. Your desire to flee from evil and resist temptation is already a sign of the Holy Spirit working in you, drawing you toward holiness. We want you to know that God sees your heart, and He is faithful to provide a way out when we are tempted. The apostle Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 10:13, "No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it."
Lust is a deceptive and destructive force that wars against the soul, but it does not have to have dominion over you. Jesus came to set the captives free, and in Him, you are no longer a slave to sin. Romans 6:12-14 tells us, "Therefore don’t let sin reign in your mortal body, that you should obey it in its lusts. Also, do not present your members to sin as instruments of unrighteousness, but present yourselves to God, as alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness to God. For sin will not have dominion over you. For you are not under law, but under grace." You are under grace, and that grace empowers you to say no to sin and yes to God’s best for you.
We also want to gently remind you that lust is not just a struggle with external temptations but often begins in the heart. Jesus warned in Matthew 5:28, "But I tell you that everyone who gazes at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart." This is why it is so important to guard your heart and your eyes, filling your mind with things that are pure, lovely, and praiseworthy (Philippians 4:8). Fleeing from lust may mean making radical changes—cutting off access to things that feed the temptation, whether it’s certain media, relationships, or habits. It may also mean confessing to a trusted brother or sister in Christ who can pray with you and hold you accountable.
Your feelings of disgust are not a sign of failure but of the Holy Spirit convicting you and calling you to repentance. Repentance is not just feeling sorry; it is turning away from sin and turning toward God. 1 John 1:9 assures us, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." You are not beyond God’s forgiveness or His power to transform you. Every time you fall, run back to Him, confess, and receive His mercy. He is not surprised by your struggle, and He is not waiting to condemn you. He is waiting to restore you.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother who is struggling with lust. Lord, we thank You that he has come to You with a repentant heart and a desire to be free. We ask that You would break the chains of this sin in his life and fill him with Your Holy Spirit. Strengthen him to flee from temptation and to stand firm in Your truth. Father, we ask that You would renew his mind and transform his heart, helping him to see himself as You see him—a beloved child, redeemed by the blood of Jesus. Give him the courage to make the changes necessary to walk in purity and to seek accountability with other believers. Lord, we declare that sin will not have dominion over him, for he is under Your grace. Fill him with Your peace and assurance of Your forgiveness. We ask that You would surround him with Your presence and remind him daily of Your love and power. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray, Amen.
We encourage you to take practical steps to fight this battle. Memorize Scripture that speaks to your struggle, such as Psalm 51:10, "Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me." Surround yourself with godly influences, whether through worship music, Christian fellowship, or mentorship. And most importantly, keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). He is your strength, your deliverer, and your hope. You are not alone in this fight, and with Him, victory is possible. Keep pressing into God, and do not grow weary in doing good, for in due season, you will reap if you do not faint (Galatians 6:9).