I posted before that one of my church members did something to me a few days ago under the influence of warfare that has been targeting me since I was a child (which God is delivering me from but it still tries to flare up). I didn't really respond to them as I was unsure of how to - the response I would have had to have given them would have had to have been very firm and boundary placing and I didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings so I just didn't respond to the text message at all. In the event that this person does this same thing again if this warfare tries to sprout up again (which it probably will), it is likely that I will have to correct them especially if they do it in person. Please pray that God would give me the wisdom to know how to. Please also pray for me as I have concerns about this church now (what this person did caused a lot of things to come up in me in terms of concerns I have about this church which turned out to be a good thing) and I'm unsure if it's the right place for me to be attending. I will probably be attending Bible study tomorrow and church on Sunday (and there will be an event after church). I'm not sure how I'm going to react to my church members now as some of the concerns I have (which are valid) center on negative experiences I've had with certain church members. I have pushed a lot of things aside but it came up when this person did what they did. Thank you.
Spiritual warfare and church
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We hear your struggle and the spiritual battle you are facing, and we stand with you in prayer, seeking God’s wisdom and protection over you. The enemy seeks to sow discord, fear, and confusion, but we know that greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). The warfare you’ve endured since childhood is not of God, and we rebuke every assignment of the enemy against you in the mighty name of Jesus. The Lord is your deliverer, and He will complete the work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6).
It is wise to seek God’s direction in how to respond to this situation, especially when boundaries must be set with love and firmness. Scripture tells us, *"If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother"* (Matthew 18:15). However, this must be done with gentleness and humility, as Galatians 6:1 instructs: *"Brothers, even if a man is caught in some fault, you who are spiritual must restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; looking to yourself so that you also aren’t tempted."* Pray for the Holy Spirit to guide your words and actions, that they may reflect Christ’s love while standing firm on truth.
Your concerns about the church are valid, and it is important to weigh them carefully before the Lord. Not every church is the right fit for every believer, and the Holy Spirit may be leading you to seek a body of believers where you can grow in faith and unity. Ask God to reveal His will for you in this season. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths"* (Proverbs 3:5-6). If you feel led to stay, pray for reconciliation and healing in your relationships with fellow members. If you feel led to leave, trust that God will guide you to a church where you can serve Him wholeheartedly.
We also want to gently address the importance of forgiveness in this situation. Unforgiveness can give the enemy a foothold in our lives (Ephesians 4:26-27). Even if correction is necessary, it should be done with a heart that seeks restoration, not bitterness. *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:31-32).
As you attend Bible study and church this weekend, ask the Lord to guard your heart and mind. *"Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it"* (Proverbs 4:23). If past wounds resurface, bring them to God in prayer and ask Him to heal you. You are not alone in this—Jesus is your advocate, and He understands the pain of betrayal and rejection (Hebrews 4:15).
Let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior. We lift up our brother/sister to You, asking for Your divine protection and wisdom to surround them. Lord, You see the spiritual warfare they have endured, and we rebuke every assignment of the enemy against them. Strengthen them by Your Spirit, and give them discernment in how to respond to this situation with love and truth.
Father, we ask that You would guide their steps regarding the church. If it is Your will for them to remain, heal their heart and bring unity among the members. If it is Your will for them to move on, open the doors to a church where they can grow in faith and serve You wholeheartedly. Grant them peace and clarity as they seek Your direction.
Lord, we pray for the person who acted under the influence of spiritual warfare. Soften their heart, and if correction is needed, let it be received with humility. Help our brother/sister to respond in a way that honors You, setting boundaries with love and grace.
We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that You will complete the good work You have begun in them. Fill them with Your peace, and let Your light shine through them in every interaction. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
It is wise to seek God’s direction in how to respond to this situation, especially when boundaries must be set with love and firmness. Scripture tells us, *"If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother"* (Matthew 18:15). However, this must be done with gentleness and humility, as Galatians 6:1 instructs: *"Brothers, even if a man is caught in some fault, you who are spiritual must restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; looking to yourself so that you also aren’t tempted."* Pray for the Holy Spirit to guide your words and actions, that they may reflect Christ’s love while standing firm on truth.
Your concerns about the church are valid, and it is important to weigh them carefully before the Lord. Not every church is the right fit for every believer, and the Holy Spirit may be leading you to seek a body of believers where you can grow in faith and unity. Ask God to reveal His will for you in this season. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths"* (Proverbs 3:5-6). If you feel led to stay, pray for reconciliation and healing in your relationships with fellow members. If you feel led to leave, trust that God will guide you to a church where you can serve Him wholeheartedly.
We also want to gently address the importance of forgiveness in this situation. Unforgiveness can give the enemy a foothold in our lives (Ephesians 4:26-27). Even if correction is necessary, it should be done with a heart that seeks restoration, not bitterness. *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:31-32).
As you attend Bible study and church this weekend, ask the Lord to guard your heart and mind. *"Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it"* (Proverbs 4:23). If past wounds resurface, bring them to God in prayer and ask Him to heal you. You are not alone in this—Jesus is your advocate, and He understands the pain of betrayal and rejection (Hebrews 4:15).
Let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior. We lift up our brother/sister to You, asking for Your divine protection and wisdom to surround them. Lord, You see the spiritual warfare they have endured, and we rebuke every assignment of the enemy against them. Strengthen them by Your Spirit, and give them discernment in how to respond to this situation with love and truth.
Father, we ask that You would guide their steps regarding the church. If it is Your will for them to remain, heal their heart and bring unity among the members. If it is Your will for them to move on, open the doors to a church where they can grow in faith and serve You wholeheartedly. Grant them peace and clarity as they seek Your direction.
Lord, we pray for the person who acted under the influence of spiritual warfare. Soften their heart, and if correction is needed, let it be received with humility. Help our brother/sister to respond in a way that honors You, setting boundaries with love and grace.
We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that You will complete the good work You have begun in them. Fill them with Your peace, and let Your light shine through them in every interaction. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
We're right here with you, standing in prayer. It's tough when we feel unsure of how to respond, especially when it comes to setting boundaries with love. Remember, Jesus said, "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God" (Matthew 5:9). Let's ask God to give you the words to say and the courage to say them in love.
We also understand your concerns about the church. It's okay to feel uncertain about where you belong. The Holy Spirit will guide you, so keep seeking His voice. As Psalm 25:5 says, "Lead me in your truth and teach me, for you are the God of my salvation; on you I wait all the day long."
As you attend Bible study and church this weekend, trust that God will give you the strength to face whatever comes your way. He's right there with you, and He promises to never leave or forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).
Let's pray together: "Dear Lord, give our friend the wisdom to know how to respond, and the courage to do so in love. Guide their steps regarding the church, and give them peace and clarity as they seek Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We also understand your concerns about the church. It's okay to feel uncertain about where you belong. The Holy Spirit will guide you, so keep seeking His voice. As Psalm 25:5 says, "Lead me in your truth and teach me, for you are the God of my salvation; on you I wait all the day long."
As you attend Bible study and church this weekend, trust that God will give you the strength to face whatever comes your way. He's right there with you, and He promises to never leave or forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).
Let's pray together: "Dear Lord, give our friend the wisdom to know how to respond, and the courage to do so in love. Guide their steps regarding the church, and give them peace and clarity as they seek Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Isaac Samuel Lubwama
Good and Faithful Servant
I prayed for this in Jesus Name.
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