We come before the Lord with heavy hearts after reading your request, knowing the spiritual warfare you are enduring is real and severe. The Bible makes it clear that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, powers, the rulers of the darkness of this world, and spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places (Ephesians 6:12). What you describe—a spirit spouse demon tormenting you with whispers, defilement, and assault—is an abomination before God, and we stand firmly against it in the authority of Jesus Christ.
First, we must address the source of this oppression. Witchcraft and demonic influence are real, and Scripture warns us repeatedly against engaging with or fearing such forces. Deuteronomy 18:10-12 declares, *"There shall not be found with you anyone who makes his son or his daughter pass through the fire, one who uses divination, one who practices sorcery, one who interprets omens, one who is a sorcerer, one who charms, a consulter with a familiar spirit, a wizard, or a necromancer. For whoever does these things is an abomination to Yahweh."* If there has been any involvement—knowingly or unknowingly—with occult practices, repentance is the first step. Even generational curses tied to such sins must be broken in Jesus’ name.
The concept of a "spirit spouse" is rooted in demonic deception, often tied to occult covenants or ungodly soul ties from past relationships, including sexual immorality. 1 Corinthians 6:16 warns, *"Or don’t you know that he who is joined to a prostitute is one body? For it says, ‘The two will become one flesh.’"* Any ungodly union—physical or spiritual—must be severed by the blood of Jesus. If there has been fornication, adultery, or any sexual sin in your past, it is critical to repent and renounce those ties, for they can open doors to demonic oppression. The same applies to ungodly emotional or spiritual bonds formed outside of God’s design for marriage.
Now, let us speak directly to the demonic forces at work: **We command you, spirit spouse and every familiar spirit tormenting this child of God, to be bound and silenced in the name of Jesus Christ.** You have no authority here. Your whispers are lies, your touch is defilement, and your presence is an affront to the Holy Spirit. By the blood of Jesus, we break every ungodly soul tie, every demonic assignment, and every curse tied to witchcraft or sexual sin. We declare this person **covered by the blood of Christ**, sealed by the Holy Spirit, and **completely untouchable by your schemes**. Every demonic stronghold in their mind, body, and spirit is **demolished now** in Jesus’ name. We plead the blood of Jesus over their thoughts, their dreams, their home, and their future spouse (if applicable). No weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and every tongue that rises against them in judgment—including demonic whispers—**is condemned** (Isaiah 54:17).
To you, beloved, we say: **Resist the devil, and he will flee from you** (James 4:7). This is not a passive resistance but an active, faith-filled stance. Fill your home with worship, the Word of God, and prayer. Psalm 91:1-2 says, *"He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of Yahweh, ‘He is my refuge and my fortress; my God, in whom I trust.’"* You must **dwell** in His presence—this is your place of safety. Fast if led, anoint your home with oil (a symbol of the Holy Spirit’s protection), and **speak Scripture aloud** over yourself. The demonic fears the Word of God when declared with authority.
If you have not already, we strongly urge you to seek **godly, Spirit-filled counsel**—a pastor or deliverance minister who can pray with you and help you walk through this season. You are not meant to fight this alone. Also, examine your life for any open doors: ungodly relationships, unrepentant sin, occult objects (even "harmless" items like horoscopes or "lucky charms"), or entertainment that glorifies darkness (e.g., certain music, movies, or games). **Burn or destroy anything tied to witchcraft or idolatry** (Acts 19:19). Replace these with the Word of God, worship music, and fellowship with believers.
Finally, we must ask: **Do you know Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior?** There is no deliverance apart from Him. If you have not surrendered your life to Christ, do so now. Romans 10:9 says, *"that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."* Without Christ, you have no authority over these spirits. But in Him, you are **more than a conqueror** (Romans 8:37). If you are already saved, then **walk in that authority**. Put on the whole armor of God daily (Ephesians 6:10-18), and **do not give the enemy a foothold** through fear, unbelief, or sin.
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**Our prayer for you:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of Your child, who is under vicious demonic attack. Lord, You are a God of justice and deliverance, and we ask that You **rise up now** and scatter every demonic force assigned against them. By the power of the Holy Spirit, we bind every spirit spouse, every familiar spirit, every spirit of witchcraft, rape, defilement, and torment. We break their power in Jesus’ name and command them to **leave now and never return**.
Father, if there are any ungodly soul ties, generational curses, or doors opened through sin, we ask that You reveal them by Your Spirit. Give this beloved one the courage to repent, renounce, and close every door. Wash them clean with the blood of Jesus and fill them afresh with Your Holy Spirit. Let Your fire consume every demonic stronghold in their life.
Lord, we ask for **divine protection**—place a hedge of thorns around them so that no evil can penetrate. Let Your angels encamp around them (Psalm 34:7) and let every whisper of the enemy be **silenced by Your truth**. Restore their peace, their joy, and their sleep. Let them **taste and see that You are good** (Psalm 34:8), and let no demonic force pervert what You have made holy.
If this battle has left them weary, Father, **strengthen them** in their inner being by Your Spirit (Ephesians 3:16). Surround them with godly believers who can stand in the gap with them. If they are single, Lord, we pray that You would **prepare them for a godly spouse** in Your timing, one who will honor You and walk in purity. Break every demonic claim over their future marriage.
We declare **total freedom** in Jesus’ name. No longer shall they be tormented, defiled, or oppressed. You, Lord, are their **Deliverer, Healer, and Redeemer**. We thank You for setting them free, for You have said, *"Whom the Son sets free is free indeed"* (John 8:36).
In the mighty, matchless name of **Jesus Christ**, we pray. Amen.