so defeated from long suffering..to long

[mattosan]

I dont know how to longggggggg suffer and be OK with it...this is driving me nuts..i have no life really, well i guess thats not really true..but it sure seems that way sometimes...I know it has to be much worse to have your spouse leave you for someone else and i am so glad that im not in that situation..but loveing someone who told me everyday that they loved me and then one day decided they are not happy and just shut me out and kicked me to the curb after 14 yrs is really hard to take...i love my wife and want to believe god is telling me to hold on but the proccess is heart breaking and takes soooo long and she says she is done so why am i waiting, hopeing , hurting, standing for someone who doesnt love me... i want to be celibrated not tolerated...lord help me to place my hope in you...and if this isnt going to happen and I read you wrong then please show me ..let me off the hook ...and let me heal or at least let the proccess of healing start....lord i love my wife but this eternal holding pattern is running me out of steam..lord i need your faith to hold on because i cant do it in my own strength....

 

[danielpaulcarey]

Mattosan, you are right in a way. There is nothing you are going to come up with that's going to make your spouse say, "ok, my feelings for separation are gone, I feel like I did when we got married," I think you have to just turn her over to the Lord. Jesus will speak to her one way or another. Mattosan, you are only one man, you can only go so far and then the Lord takes over and makes the impossible...possible. So if you turn her over to Jesus, and you are meant to be with your wife, than the Lord will make a way for this to happen. Just continue to live in the Lords will, seek ye first the kingdom of God and all things will be added unto you. It might be reconciliation, it might not, only Jesus and his Father know that. We humans, just can't predict such things. I know i've taken a somewhat cold look and approach at your pain, i'm sorry for that. You know i'm here to pray and intercede for you. I just want you to know, it's in Gods hands. If you can turn it over completely, 100%....you'll get an answer on your marriage. Put yourself in position daily to do the Lords work and you will always be in a position to hear the Lords voice. God bless you Mattosan, i'm praying for you. I pray the Lord take this load off your shoulders, and maybe you can rest easy knowing the God we both serve is in control. God bless.

 

[Liz1]

Lord Give Mattosan the strength to go forward. Inspire him to make the right decision. Bring peace to his life I ask in Jesus name Amen

 

[SinglemomV]

Dear Lord I pray for Matt 's prayers to be answered. Show him comfort and guide him to only listen to you. He is hurting Dear Lord, renew his spirit. Lord I pray Matt gives all this to you..Give him Faith and YOUR ALMIGHTY Strength!! Matt, you deserve to be loved, we all do...I don't know why this happened to you, only the Good Lord does. You have to trust in the Lord with all your might and don't look back, do not cast any doubt..It is hard to do sometimes, as we are only human, but it is what God wants us to do..So we keep trying until we do..Believe your life will change very soon, Have Faith that the Good Lord is with you, listen to him..I pray Dear Lord give Matt patience, comfort, as we are all praying for you....In Jesus Name I pray Amen

 

[Angeline]

Lord, I pray for Your healing love to flow and surround Mattosan and may he be guided by You. In Jesus Name. amen

 

[kristi]

Dearest God have mercy on Matt and give him strength. Father restore this family for your glory in Jesus name.

 

[EasTNChik]

Dear Lord please be with Mattosan and allow hime to know your will. Speak to hime clearly Lord. Please Lord Jesus guide him.

Amen