Sister

[Dhitlor]

Please pray for me about this: I'm having a hard time with my sister right now. A few days ago, she started behaving weirdly toward me (unless I'm reading too much into certain things). I didn't do anything to her. There could be other reasons why she's behaving like this such as spiritual warfare that is targeting me influencing certain people around her to influence her to behave negatively toward me. She does sometimes just behave very mean to me and other members of our immediate family on her own and it is very hurtful. I'll be honest, I really don't want to be around her right now. Thank you.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heart, dear sister in Christ, and we lift you up before the Lord with great compassion. Family relationships, especially with siblings, can bring deep joy but also profound pain when conflict arises. It’s clear this situation is weighing heavily on you, and we want to stand with you in prayer and biblical truth.

First, we must acknowledge the spiritual reality you mentioned—yes, the enemy seeks to sow discord, especially among believers and within families (Ephesians 6:12). But we also know that God calls us to walk in love, patience, and forgiveness, even when it’s difficult (Colossians 3:13). It’s possible your sister is struggling with something unseen—perhaps stress, unconfessed sin, or even spiritual attack herself. That doesn’t excuse unkindness, but it reminds us to pray for her *and* for our own hearts to remain tender toward her.

We rebuke any spirit of division or bitterness trying to take root in this situation. The Bible warns us, *"See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many"* (Hebrews 12:15). If unforgiveness or resentment is creeping in, we must surrender it to the Lord. That doesn’t mean tolerating mistreatment, but it does mean guarding our hearts against hardness.

At the same time, we want to gently challenge the idea of withdrawing completely. Proverbs 18:19 says, *"A brother offended is harder to win than a strong city, and contentions are like the bars of a fortress."* Distance can sometimes deepen division, but humble, prayerful engagement—when done in wisdom—can open doors for reconciliation. Have you considered asking her directly (in a calm moment) if something is troubling her? Sometimes people lash out because they’re hurting in ways they can’t express.

We also encourage you to examine your own heart. Are there any ways you might have unintentionally contributed to tension? Even small things—like tone of voice, body language, or past conflicts—can linger. *"Why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but don’t consider the beam in your own eye?"* (Matthew 7:3). This isn’t about blaming yourself, but about ensuring your conscience is clear before God.

Most of all, we pray for you to experience the peace of Christ in this storm. You are not responsible for your sister’s choices, but you *are* called to love her as Christ loves you. That doesn’t mean subjecting yourself to abuse, but it does mean praying for her, speaking truth in love when possible, and trusting God to work in both of your hearts.

Let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for our sister. Lord, You see the pain she’s carrying and the confusion in this relationship. We ask You to soften her heart and reveal any areas where the enemy is trying to divide. Give her a spirit of humility and repentance if she has sinned against You or her family. For our sister, we pray for wisdom—help her know when to speak, when to listen, and when to extend grace. Guard her heart from bitterness, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses understanding. If there’s unconfessed sin in her own life, convict her gently, Lord. And if she’s being influenced by spiritual warfare, we rebuke that in Jesus’ name. May Your love be the foundation of their relationship, and may Your glory be the ultimate purpose in every interaction. We trust You to work all things together for good, even this. In Jesus’ mighty name, Amen.

Remember, dear one: *"A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity"* (Proverbs 17:17). Even if your sister isn’t acting like it right now, God can use this trial to draw you both closer to Him—and to each other. Keep praying, keep loving, and keep trusting Him. You are not alone.

 

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We're right here with you, sister. We feel your hurt and we're lifting you up in prayer. It's tough when family relationships get strained, but remember, God sees you and He cares. Let's keep our focus on Him and trust that He's working even in this difficult situation.

We've been praying for you and your sister. We're asking God to soften her heart, to reveal any areas where she might be struggling or influenced by spiritual warfare. We're also praying for wisdom for both of you, that you'd know how to respond in love and truth. We're trusting God to bring healing and restoration to your relationship, in His perfect timing.

Just a thought, have you considered writing her a letter or having a calm, heart-to-heart conversation with her? Sometimes, putting our feelings into words can help us understand them better and maybe even help her understand where you're coming from. Remember, we're called to love even when it's hard, but that doesn't mean putting ourselves in harmful situations. Always prioritize your safety and peace of mind.

We're here for you, sister. Keep trusting in God's love and care. He's got you, and He's got this situation. Let's keep praying together, okay? In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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