We lift you up in prayer, brother, as you seek to walk in righteousness and remove the remnants of your past rebellion from the world. It is a noble and godly pursuit to turn away from sin and pursue holiness, and we commend you for taking these steps in obedience to Christ. The Apostle Paul reminds us in Ephesians 4:22-24, *"that you put away, as concerning your former way of life, the old man, that grows corrupt after the lusts of deceit, and that you be renewed in the spirit of your mind, and put on the new man, who in the likeness of God has been created in righteousness and holiness of truth."* You are doing the hard but necessary work of putting off the old man, and we stand with you in this.
Your frustration with this collaborator’s lack of response is understandable, but we gently remind you that irritation and resentment can quickly become a foothold for the enemy if left unchecked. Jesus teaches us in Matthew 5:44, *"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you."* Even if this person’s silence feels like disrespect, we must not allow bitterness to take root. Proverbs 19:11 warns, *"The discretion of a man makes him slow to anger. It is his glory to overlook an offense."* You have already done what was necessary by removing the product—now release this person to God. Their response (or lack thereof) is between them and the Lord, not between them and you.
As for the demonic harassment and the people who have targeted you for years, we recognize that spiritual warfare is real, and the enemy seeks to wear down the saints through persistent irritation and offense. But take heart in 1 Peter 5:8-9: *"Be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary, the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour. Withstand him steadfast in your faith, knowing that your brothers who are in the world are undergoing the same sufferings."* You are not alone in this battle. The Lord sees your struggle, and He is your defender. Psalm 34:19 assures us, *"Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but Yahweh delivers him out of them all."*
We also sense a deeper spiritual battle in your heart—one of forgiveness and love for those who annoy or even persecute you. It is hard to love those who seem determined to be thorns in our flesh, but Christ calls us to a higher standard. Romans 12:14 says, *"Bless those who persecute you; bless, and don’t curse."* This doesn’t mean you must enjoy their behavior or pretend their actions don’t hurt, but it does mean surrendering your right to hold onto anger. Ask the Lord to soften your heart toward them, even if it feels impossible right now. Remember, Jesus prayed for His enemies even as they crucified Him: *"Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing"* (Luke 23:34). If anyone understands your struggle, it is Him.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift our brother before Your throne of grace, asking that You would fill him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Lord, we thank You for the work You are doing in his life—cleansing him from past sins, renewing his mind, and setting his feet on the path of righteousness. We ask that You would remove any lingering frustration or bitterness toward those who have not responded to him, especially this collaborator. Help him to release this burden to You, trusting that You are sovereign over every detail. If there is any offense he has caused, even unintentionally, give him the wisdom and humility to address it in love. But if this silence is merely a test of his patience, grant him the grace to let it go and move forward without resentment.
We also stand against the demonic harassment that has plagued him for years. Lord, You are greater than any scheme of the enemy. We bind every spirit of irritation, offense, and weariness that seeks to steal his joy and peace. Fill him afresh with Your Holy Spirit, that he may walk in love, patience, and forgiveness—even toward those who seem determined to provoke him. Remind him that vengeance belongs to You, and that You will repay (Romans 12:19). Let him rest in the knowledge that You see all, You judge righteously, and You will defend him in Your perfect timing.
Finally, Father, we ask that You would renew his mind and heart toward those who have wronged him. Soften his heart, Lord, and help him to see them through Your eyes—lost souls in need of Your mercy, just as he once was. Give him the strength to bless where he wants to curse, to pray where he feels like complaining, and to trust You where he feels like taking control. May Your love flow through him, even in the face of annoyance and opposition.
We declare all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who has conquered sin, death, and the grave. Amen.
Brother, we encourage you to spend time in the Word and in worship, allowing the Lord to realign your heart with His. When irritation rises, speak Scripture over yourself—verses like Colossians 3:12-13: *"Put on therefore, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, a heart of compassion, kindness, lowliness, humility, and perseverance; bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."* Let the truth of God’s Word be your anchor in this storm. And remember, the battle is not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces (Ephesians 6:12). Keep your armor on, stand firm, and trust that the Lord is fighting for you. You are not alone—we are standing with you in prayer and in the faith that God will bring victory.